Goldfsh79 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I was feeling so much better about MM. I accepted it was over, we said our goodbyes, I know we aren't meant to be, but I really miss him tonight. Maybe it's because my husband is feeling distant, but I'm sad tonight. I'm not going to call him because we both said goodbye and good luck and it makes no sense to, plus I told him not to call me. Just feeling sad about it all tonight.
whichwayisup Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 It's okay to have some bad days and grieve the loss..You'll miss him for a long time. You'll have more better days soon, I hope. BUT, keep in mind your husband is distant because on some level he knows something is wrong and if he doesn't know the truth, he feels the distance you give off towards him. I highly doubt you are your bubbly self around him, all happy and acting like all is okay. He knows you, so remember that.. Anyway, whatever you do, DO NOT email exMM. you had your goodbyes and he wants NC. Focus on healing and reconnecting with your husband. Keep busy and don't let yourself wallow in the pain for too long. 2
jwi71 Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 I was feeling so much better about MM. I accepted it was over, we said our goodbyes, I know we aren't meant to be, but I really miss him tonight. Maybe it's because my husband is feeling distant, but I'm sad tonight. I'm not going to call him because we both said goodbye and good luck and it makes no sense to, plus I told him not to call me. Just feeling sad about it all tonight. Its after the fact I know...but why not do something fun with your H? 2
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