Necromancer Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 That if you ask out a random girl she could be rejecting you for 100 different reasons?. If a random girl would ask me out, i would reject her only if: 1. She wasn't my physical type. 2. I would be in a relationship/dating a girl. 3. Her personality would be a total crap (Very unlikely). That´s it. Let´s face it, most guys get rejected because of looks (not some 99 other different reasons, that don´t matter goat shiiit). Stay tuned! 1
Failboy Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 It is true that women have more reasons to reject someone. They care a lot more about 1.) what their friends could/would/do think of you 2.) what type of friends you have 3.) how comfortable with yourself you are 4.) how fearless you are 5.) how much money you might have and so on. So, a girl might find you physically attractive and be single, but reject you because all your friends at the spot look like idiots. Or because she finds you cute, while she is also aware that by common perception you are, well, not that cute and therefore will reject you because she doesn't want to be devalued by her social circle or strangers who see you two together. The list goes on forever. But sure, looks have a lot to do with it. There's still more though.
Author Necromancer Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 It is true that women have more reasons to reject someone. They care a lot more about 1.) what their friends could/would/do think of you 2.) what type of friends you have 3.) how comfortable with yourself you are 4.) how fearless you are 5.) how much money you might have and so on. So, a girl might find you physically attractive and be single, but reject you because all your friends at the spot look like idiots. Or because she finds you cute, while she is also aware that by common perception you are, well, not that cute and therefore will reject you because she doesn't want to be devalued by her social circle or strangers who see you two together. The list goes on forever. But sure, looks have a lot to do with it. There's still more though. I think there is no end on how shallow some people can be. I always try to stay away from garbage people.
Failboy Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I think there is no end on how shallow some people can be. I always try to stay away from garbage people. That's why I started OLD. Girls who would have never given me a date when asked in public face-to-face gave me a chance because I wrote witty mails and put up the better pictures I have of me. They still most of the time didn't want anything to do with me after the first date, though. But still, I could work on being more comfortable on dates. The fact is, you have to go through a lot of people who are shallow before you find someone who isn't shallow, still single and physically attractive to you.
Meg717 Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 That's why I started OLD. Girls who would have never given me a date when asked in public face-to-face gave me a chance because I wrote witty mails and put up the better pictures I have of me. They still most of the time didn't want anything to do with me after the first date, though. But still, I could work on being more comfortable on dates. The fact is, you have to go through a lot of people who are shallow before you find someone who isn't shallow, still single and physically attractive to you. Wow I don't normally see men on here say positive things about OLD...you're probably the first lol...
Author Necromancer Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 That's why I started OLD. Girls who would have never given me a date when asked in public face-to-face gave me a chance because I wrote witty mails and put up the better pictures I have of me. They still most of the time didn't want anything to do with me after the first date, though. But still, I could work on being more comfortable on dates. The fact is, you have to go through a lot of people who are shallow before you find someone who isn't shallow, still single and physically attractive to you. I think really that I have 3 time more chance irl and I live in a small country so most of the people who use old are strange so I won't bother.
Anela Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 That if you ask out a random girl she could be rejecting you for 100 different reasons?. If a random girl would ask me out, i would reject her only if: 1. She wasn't my physical type. 2. I would be in a relationship/dating a girl. 3. Her personality would be a total crap (Very unlikely). That´s it. Let´s face it, most guys get rejected because of looks (not some 99 other different reasons, that don´t matter goat shiiit). Stay tuned! Some people have reasons for not dating anyone at all. (I'm going to start saying that my own comments are outstanding. You've inspired me!) 1
Els Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Is it just me, or is anyone else still looking for the 'outstanding' bit? This is really a simple misunderstanding. One person doesn't have a 100 different reasons for rejecting you. But 100 people could have 100 different reasons for rejecting you between all of them, because they're all, you know, different people. The '100 different reasons' statement is usually brought up in response to people's claims of 'I asked out so many girls but they all rejected me, so it must be because I'm short/poor/Asian/black/etc!'. Surely it wasn't that hard to understand. Speaking of outstanding, the only part of this thread that 'stands out' to me is that you listed what would make YOU and you alone reject a girl, and immediately assumed that everyone else must be like you and anything anyone else says is, err, cattle poo. Well, good luck with that. 1
Failboy Posted August 11, 2012 Posted August 11, 2012 (edited) Wow I don't normally see men on here say positive things about OLD...you're probably the first lol... Well, I only say good stuff about it because what I experienced in "real life" is even worse. When I think about it, I have contacted hundreds of women, sometimes even wrote my fingers off in really long, well written mails and so on. Yet I have only met 13. Surprisingly low number, now that I think about it. Only 2 of them gave me a 2nd date. So thinking about it, I worked my ass off and only got sex with 2 women. And the money I spent on all of those dates could have gotten me 2 elite hookers instead. But what you have to see is this: When I walk up to a woman, try to talk to her and she rudely blows me off, I'm hurt deeply. If I write a generic OLD text to a dozen women while being bored and 8 of them don't bother to reply, I don't give a crap. That's why I prefer OLD. Edited August 11, 2012 by Failboy
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