Lolamola Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 Hey, Im excited to get advice about this and see what yall think. I dated my best friends brother for a few months and it ended a few months ago. Now we had a mutual break up which he initiated. The reason was we were never really sure about his brother's position on this. We werent very open about our relationship either. anyways thats done. I told him that we would still be friends, but then i realized .. maybe not haha. I realized I needed time to really recover and be single again. Just i was about to recover, he calls and then again as im about to recover, he texts.. and it goes on like that. He hasnt fully stopped contact. The worse thing is 2 weeks after we broke up, we had a conversation about his PENIS, which i was trying to avoid, but i coudnt help but really laugh at how stupid this is. We are not in a relationship, so why pretend ? now its been a few month since we broke up and the longest since we spoke and now the new thing is : He shows up at my work, twice ( I was there once).. so anyways he calls me a few days after to say "Whats up" and then asks me about life and talks about "meeting up" ... and every now and then he will bring up the old days somehow like little hints here and there.. And im just on the other side of the phone thinking.. WTF ... so WTF ? haha I dont want to get back to him, but this makes me happy and confused..
Appleness Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 Ummm, you probably already know this but you need to stop contact with him. Yes, the fact that his brother is your best friend is going to be extra hard but he won't leave you alone or if you can't avoid him then you need to sit him down and calmly tell him that you can't have convo's about his penis, he can't come to your work, he needs to let you just hang out with your friend without him being there, etc. Otherwise, you have to tell your friend that he has to meet you somewhere else other than his house from now on. Good luck
Author Lolamola Posted August 11, 2012 Author Posted August 11, 2012 I really hope that we can actually break contact eventually, I will play my part of the no contact and it's up to him to get the hint. Thankyou!
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