One day im happy without her, the next im very badly depressed and want her back

[Matt145]

This is kinda wierd for me, because one day ill wake up and think **** her i dont need her and then all day ill proceed to not give a **** about her, even though i think about her all day sometimes i still dont want her back at times. But then on other days ill wake up and ill be hurting really bad and im desperate for her back and id do anything for her back, i think about her all day and just miss her so much. Like today for example i dreamed about her last night and woke up and ive been depressed all day. But yesterday i didnt care atall and i wasnt that depressed compared to today. Does anyone else feel like this?

[someone12341]

i feel like this all the time, i have to work with her. when i see her at work hitting up other dudes right in front of me im like god im glad she broke up with me, just want to go and scream at her call her a bunch of names, but i do not do it i usually just go past her smile and shake my head and chuckle. after work go home and just be pissed off. then somedays i go to work, and can't stop thinking about her wishing it was me that she was talking to, after work on these days i usually sit in my chair and think of what it would be like if we had gotten married. these days suck and feel depressed but they are slowly fading away don't have them as much anymore.

[SeventhFloor]

Man, I feel like this all the time. I think it's pretty normal. Breaking up is going through a rollercoaster of emotions. You're just missing what you had, and then when you realize it wasn't all that great...you're like screw it!

 

It'll fade eventually... over time, the "**** that bitch" days will outweigh those days of pining.

[Blastoplast]

Man, I feel like this all the time. I think it's pretty normal. Breaking up is going through a rollercoaster of emotions. You're just missing what you had, and then when you realize it wasn't all that great...you're like screw it!

 

It'll fade eventually... over time, the "**** that bitch" days will outweigh those days of pining.

 

I want to get there so badly right now. There are days when I'm like "That f***ing b**ch, why couldn't you just keep it real?" Even after how bad of a GF she was at the end of our 7 year run, I still want her back because I know she didn't want to hurt me, and that she never wanted to end up this way -- that we had much higher goals together and they still might be realistic. HOWEVER, I look back and think "If only you had tried just a little bit harder, or if you were just a little more open to me -- we would still be together, saving up $$$ towards a common goal and making that goal happen."

 

I feel like our situation is a little more unique than most on here, but in the end it did boil down to one not trying as hard as the other, and therefore the relationship failing. It's just hard to come to grips with after a 7 year run.

[BooBoo1982]

I want to get there so badly right now. There are days when I'm like "That f***ing b**ch, why couldn't you just keep it real?" Even after how bad of a GF she was at the end of our 7 year run, I still want her back because I know she didn't want to hurt me, and that she never wanted to end up this way -- that we had much higher goals together and they still might be realistic. HOWEVER, I look back and think "If only you had tried just a little bit harder, or if you were just a little more open to me -- we would still be together, saving up $$$ towards a common goal and making that goal happen."

 

I feel like our situation is a little more unique than most on here, but in the end it did boil down to one not trying as hard as the other, and therefore the relationship failing. It's just hard to come to grips with after a 7 year run.

 

What was the reason for your split?