tenancingo Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 Hi guys , how are you today I write this because I do not know what to do, I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 7 years all was well loved and respected us mutually, we were thinking of getting married this year and start a family together, all these 7 year I spend giving the best for her, and her son, giving them love and respect, until I had an accident in my work that left me disabled, she began to change, then I realized that she started dating someone else in her workplace, as I realized I would ask her, and she replied that no longer felt anything for me, that being with me her dreams couldnot not be done, she abandoned me, I leave all my friends my family just be with her,she asking me to stay away from her and her son, 2 months have passed since I left the apartment, really miss my cat and the good times that I spent with her and her son, she never calls me or ask anything about my situation, feels like she forgot everything about me, I only know that now he lives with her I feel that she just use me, any advice could help me to move on thank you .............. why? women are selfish and only care about them...............
Car10e Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 Not all women are selfish...there are plenty of men who do the same. Why would you want to be with someone who is not going to accept you for yourself. I am not sure what your disability is, but sometimes that alone is a commitment. 7 years is a long time, so its going to take a while to move on, especially if you were dependent on her. Try to get by minute by minute, day by day, and it will get easier. Best thing to do, is keep yourself and your mind busy.
dannykeyz831 Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I feel for you, I really do! Some people are just so heartless and can turn on you for no reason other than to satisfy themselves. You're better off without her. A person who does indeed love you will stay by your side no matter what. You had a bit of a setback with your accident and she decides to book it. That's the real person that she is. I know your hurting big time right now but you can't reminisce on the good times without thinking about what she did to you. It'll only make the pain that much greater. Cry it out man and then learn to accept things. That's the only way you can move on. Its not really the women who do bad things, its the individual. There are so many great women out there and I'm sure one day you will meet a special girl who will love you for who you are. Keep your head up buddy!
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