livelife Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 We've been working on things, and things have been rocky due to miscommunication, and he hasn't really opened up to me, but today told me thats cause he was hurt from the breakup, and its hard for him to open up to people. Anyways, he thought all I did was flip flop, so he said "i never thought id say this but I think its best we call it quits blah blah blah" we had a long discussion and I told him I never flip flopped, that I knew what i wanted but at the same time I wanted someone who would treat me better ( we haven't gone out on any dates due to him not having money, so all he has done is invite me to his house, which I started to think of as a booty call. THis was an argument we had last night which led to this conversation today.) He just kept saying how he didn't have money and he was at least trying to see me, and I said well I really just wanted to know how you felt about me. And the discussion was dying down, so I said listen I want to hear you say bye, I need closure. He said he didn't want goodbye, and I said, okay well something. Not bye because we will see each other again, but just something. And he said "no." I asked him why not? And no response yet. I know he has seen it. But to me, It seems like he wanted me to chase him and beg him back, and he didn't really want to officially end things. Why isn't he giving me something?
Am313 Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 You dumped him, so why do you expect him to make it easier for you by telling you what you want to hear?
Author livelife Posted August 9, 2012 Author Posted August 9, 2012 You dumped him, so why do you expect him to make it easier for you by telling you what you want to hear? because he needs to put in something for me to be happy, and I can't truly be happy if I don't get anything from him.
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