Life1992 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 i need help i dont know what im suppose to do i love my boyfriend so much we have been together 2 years and we got a 23 month year old baby and he expects me to do everything dishes laundry bath the baby play with the baby all the time i dont get 5 minutes and he is constantly on to me about money about me spending it on things we dont need but we need food and general things while he wants to spend it on rubbish and hes shouting at me all the time i got abit of a temper but he seems to be shouting all day everyday i need advice please tell how to be a good girlfriend to him
freestyle Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 The only reason to ever shout at someone is if they're about to get hit by a bus. I certainly hope that isn't happening in front of the baby. It can be psychologically damaging, and traumatizing for a developing mind to be exposed to that. I would focus more on being a good parent to your baby, than being a good girlfriend. That comes first. Have you considered going to couple's counseling?
slovek Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I think speaking calmly together helps and making a plan for spending, that way, if either of you spend over the limit, its one of you guys fault. Thing have to be solved.
BellaMarieOC Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 This sounds like a very toxic and unhealthy relationship. It also sounds very abusive. You don't need to be a better GF, HE needs to be a man and stop treating you this way. I know it's not the ideal situation, but you need to get yourself and your baby away from this man. He may one day physically hurt, or worse, kill you. What kind of example are you setting for your child?
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