Brokendude Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 4 weeks nc. Ive gotten to the point where i stopped missing her and felt angry, today is so difficult all the memories keep running back and i miss her terribly... This hurts so much
penguin23 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Hi Brokendude. Sorry to hear you're having a hard time today. Just keep reminding yourself that you're not always going to feel like this. It is a cycle and as much as it sucks to be on the down swing you will get back up. Just be nice to yourself today. Maybe you could workout? Or something else that might take your mind off her?
Lone Blue Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I know the feeling, but chin up. Go out and distract yourself! Every day is a new day and life is beautiful. Also, remember that everything happens for a reason, and well, even if you don't see it now, one day you'll look back at this and laugh. Best wishes, and seriously, go out and distract yourself!
Author Brokendude Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Thanks guys, ive been bus i gym it at 7 -9 work 10-5 then school 6-1030, im swamped everyday, today i really feel weak, been so upbeat and strong these last few days and lost all hope so i was able to move on, today little hope is creeping in although there shouldnt be any, just miss her an all the memories and i kno im better than this
penguin23 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 It sounds like you're super busy already! I say just take it easy on yourself. And these feelings are totally natural- don't force yourself to feel a certain way. There's nothing wrong with feeling upset about a break up! You would have to be heartless not be upset. Just see it as proof of your capacity to love deeply:)
Author Brokendude Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Penguin ur so sweet! how can anyone break up w u? I hate that were all meeting under these circumstances but getting to kno caring and genuine people like u guys gives me hope that ill find that lucky girl out there! And yes i said lucky coz i believe im a quality character human being
Lone Blue Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Penguin ur so sweet! how can anyone break up w u? I hate that were all meeting under these circumstances but getting to kno caring and genuine people like u guys gives me hope that ill find that lucky girl out there! And yes i said lucky coz i believe im a quality character human being Of course you are a quality character human being. Never doubt that. As for your schedule, you sound absolutely swamped. Enjoy yourself, but remember to grieve and mourn. Hope you have a great day.
Author Brokendude Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Lone blue thank u for the support, i hope ur coping well also! Anyhow, ya my schedule is swamped, i vow to be the best, most productive person after the break up, i felt i owed it to myself to be the best i can. I wanna build me from the ground up and i will, but days like today will happen! I appreciate it!
penguin23 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Penguin ur so sweet! how can anyone break up w u? I hate that were all meeting under these circumstances but getting to kno caring and genuine people like u guys gives me hope that ill find that lucky girl out there! And yes i said lucky coz i believe im a quality character human being Aww thanks. And there is a very lucky girl out there, I completely agree. (and guy for me!) It's been so great to have you here too-the break up is much less painful knowing that you guys will help me out when I need it. Ride out these tougher times and somewhere down the road this will all just a little tiny blip in the rearview mirror.
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