weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Personaly i think as above, it's all the time wasted feeling like crap, and not being the way we were......all because of another being.....This time maybe months or longer, all wasted because we're not "who we are".....makes me sick.....ugh.
2muchlove Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 True. But I look forward to the person I will become when it's all said and done. 1
Author weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 yea.............even more gaurded......
chrisusarmy2005 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I agree you put so much time and effort to a relationship and it just hurts being the one to give. Both parties should be joint as one. When they break it off it really feels like it was a waste of time. It makes you stronger but still you feel like crap. 3
Author weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 god when does it friggin end......the depression, the lack of confidence etc etc........AGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
2muchlove Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 god when does it friggin end......the depression, the lack of confidence etc etc........AGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRR Took me almost 7 months to fully get over my first love. But it wasn't nearly as crazy and emotional as this last one. No telling how long it will take. But apparently everyone is different.
Mary Oak Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I think the worse thing is the hope... hoping it will come back together... 4
Author weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 you right............i can't remember the last one either...i'd say 6 months?.... This one in reality should be easier, as it was kind of mutual.....even though i found it a nightmare letting go, and still am...
Blastoplast Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Over 3 months in a BU from a 7 year relationship.. I still have days where I feel miserable, and I've even messed around with some other women already. It just sucks after you've invested so much into one person, and a future together only to have it ripped away for some sort of Illusions of Grandeur. Over 2 months ago I wanted to go to sleep one night and never wake up. Overall I'm a lot better now, but man there are some days where I judge myself, judge her and just feel like this whole mess we are in could have been avoided with some better communication and a little work in the relationship... that that's what makes it very hard for me, that we both still want to be with each other -- but it's just not going to work right now.
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I think the worse thing is the hope... hoping it will come back together... pretty much nailed it! hoping they would "wake up" one day and know what they've lost as well. hoping they would "realize" the grass isn't greener... for my Ex specifically, hoping his pride and ego will eventually brake down or something.
BrokenAnna Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I think the worse thing is the hope... hoping it will come back together... Agree and for me it was also regret playing mind games...I should have never tried manipulating him
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