ryandxtreme Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Friends, today while I was leaving office to have lunch my ex called me up... It was light..kind of catching up about how we were..my new job,her career...while hanging-up she said "I will call later again"(dun know what that meant)... We broke up(she dumped me out of the blues) 1.5 yrs back after 4.5 yrs of being together..I'm 22, she's 20...From April 2011 to around March 2012 we were in complete NC...I had recovered to a great extent by then...then out of nowhere she appeared ,repeatedly said sorry for how she treated me ... she said she missed me like hell throughout and would visit my fb page everyday to check my updates and photos...(I had unfriended her in fb..but kept my profile privacy as public so that she knows how much I have progressed if she bychance checked my profile)....We met once in March ..and post that she started asking me if i would come back ..I wanted to keep it slow and see how sincere she really was...but as soon as i started showing interest she kind of backed out..and even said to a mutual friend that she tried to patch up but realized it would never work,she felt i was no more the person she loved..the funny part is just a week before that she was telling me that she was madly in love with me and all cheesy stuffs... ..then she herself called me up and told all that she had said to the mutual friend...It was in beginning of June 2012...I was quiet and cool during the conversation but again went to NC mode... for the entire story visit the link http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332655-did-she-just-toy-me-again ... right now I have moved to a different city,got a very cool(but hectic )job...Incidentally she has her b'day on 11th august and I was confused whether i should wish her or not(last year i didn't )..and today she calls ! Any insights people ??
Fallenandbroken Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 Hey My opinion is move on. Don't make the mistakes I made. Met my ex at 21 now 26 and we parted was for the 10th time about 2 months ago. She'd leave, rebound, wait till I was getting over her and come back. So her I am 5 years later and she's done it again. Point I'm trying to make is cut your losses and find someone who wants your all not to see if your still on the end of the string. Girls like that like to pull it to see if your still attached and when they see you are they go about there business. Cut that string and enjoy your youth because it ticks by faster than you think. That's my opinion anyway, whatever you decide to do goodluck. If you decide you try get back with her be the one that pulls that string and let her work to get you back.
Author ryandxtreme Posted August 10, 2012 Author Posted August 10, 2012 tomorrow she has her b'day..should i wish her ??
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