I was thinking about her a lot for d last 2 weeks...Ex calls today

[ryandxtreme]

Friends, today while I was leaving office to have lunch my ex called me up...

 

It was light..kind of catching up about how we were..my new job,her career...while hanging-up she said "I will call later again"(dun know what that meant)...

 

We broke up(she dumped me out of the blues) 1.5 yrs back after 4.5 yrs of being together..I'm 22, she's 20...From April 2011 to around March 2012 we were in complete NC...I had recovered to a great extent by then...then out of nowhere she appeared ,repeatedly said sorry for how she treated me ...

 

she said she missed me like hell throughout and would visit my fb page everyday to check my updates and photos...(I had unfriended her in fb..but kept my profile privacy as public so that she knows how much I have progressed if she bychance checked my profile)....We met once in March ..and post that she started asking me if i would come back ..I wanted to keep it slow and see how sincere she really was...but as soon as i started showing interest she kind of backed out..and even said to a mutual friend that she tried to patch up but realized it would never work,she felt i was no more the person she loved..the funny part is just a week before that she was telling me that she was madly in love with me and all cheesy stuffs...

..then she herself called me up and told all that she had said to the mutual friend...It was in beginning of June 2012...I was quiet and cool during the conversation but again went to NC mode... for the entire story visit the link http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/332655-did-she-just-toy-me-again ...

 

 

right now I have moved to a different city,got a very cool(but hectic )job...Incidentally she has her b'day on 11th august and I was confused whether i should wish her or not(last year i didn't )..and today she calls !

...insights ??

Edited August 8, 2012 by ryandxtreme

[MCMLXXXIX]

People gave you good advice on that other thread you posted. You're obviously more mature than her (except for maybe that FB part). Let it go. Personally I would probably toy back with her a little, but that's just because I'm mean.

[ryandxtreme]

thanks for ur reply..

 

Should I wish her on her b'day ??I have been hurt by her a lot in the past and those were the darkest days of my life...But I don't know why after I came out of the anger phase I felt she was still the girl of my dreams...I still love her...But I would think about going back only if she is into this big time..like real big time...

 

What is she trying to do by contacting me ???Does she want to patch up ??How should I react if she contacts me again ??