mr.SI Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 okay recently my ex wanted to take time off (now i know why)and i recently got of hold of her cell phone bill(hook-up) and i noticed she has been talking alot at night with the same phone number. we still talk everyother day and the conversations are great. i really love this girl but this just crushes me and my hopes of getting back with her. is there a reason why she is still talking to me even though she obviously has interest in this new guy. what should i do? confront her or just play it as it as i dunno? is it worth being friends with her?please any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
disconcertainly Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 I think that you need to move on. B/c it sounds like she just wants to keep you on the back burner for safe keeping. I Know that it will be hard but try to move on and let her know that this is hurting you.
joseph Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 definately a wise idea diconcertainly; what she's trying to pull here isnt fair, so don't let her get away with it any longer. Your not her soft place to land when this fling with the other guy doesn't work out. Good luck,
Author mr.SI Posted July 14, 2004 Author Posted July 14, 2004 thank you for the replies. it gonna be very hard to move on. should i tell how i feel or will that just makes things worse
messedup Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 hey im going through the same thing right now once a cheat always a cheat read "my wife took off with another man..twice..." let me know what you think
RoboHobo Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Sorry to hear that this is happening to you, there is far to much this going on. The only area where I can see room for advice is on the friendship between you guys. If you want to have her as a friend and she is treating you fairly then go for it. Be honest with yourself about your motivations though. You wanting her back is natural, but if the only reason you want a friendship with her is to get back together it isn't much of a friendship at all. Don't let yourself become her backup plan either. You must respect yourself more than that. Another thing you need to do is ask her what her feelings for this other guy are, it'll give you some clarity and insight into the situation. It isn't always the case, but some times it can be that she just has just a good friendship with the guy.
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