weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Let's face it, if you were the dumpee......and you've been through months of pain and anguish over a certain person, do you really think you'd have any respect left for that person, feel the same again, or even look at them in the same light? I very much doubt it......so i'm focusing on that to try and get through this.... Perhaps we all should?.
Wake_Me_Up Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 I completely agree. As much as we shouldn't allow our dumpers to get us back whenever they please, the reality is that a great percentage of dumpees would and will accept and even beg for their ex's back. But when you've gone through weeks, months or even years worth of heart break, pain, shame and utter despair, even if deep down inside you wanted to take them back; you have experienced far too much pain to let that be a possibility. Well that's what I'm thinking at least. I know of people who have taken their ex's back after being tormented or even still begged for them back months down the track. From my experience too, it tends to be women or men who suffered long-term domestic violence and who don't have much other support in the form of family and friends that take their abusive partners back hoping that things will be different but knowing it won't.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 yea i here you..............but then again, i caused her a lot of pain, when i spoke to her the other day (bad idea).....she commented "you wouldn't believe what you've done to my head, you've messed me up"........yea and that's what happens...all she wants to do is hurt me now.......i want my old life back.....the way i was......confident, i felt handsome, had purpose, but then i'm sure she feels or has felt the same, so it works both ways i guess...
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