p1t5e3l0 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Hi guys I been dating my gf who i known for 4 years and we just started dating in April. Everything seems to be find we try to meet one or twice a month but lately she's been distance and from what i understand i thought she might be bz because she is starting her school again and moving out of her parents place and getting a new place. So I figure thats why we havent been communicating. I finally asked her what is going on and why is she being distant and not talking to me the same way. She says i wanna breakup without giving any explanation. I kept asking her what is going on is there some other guy that she might be intrested in or something. She said no its not that. I asked her what is it then, She still not answering me streight. All she is saying she wants to be freinds and doesnt wanna be in relationship. SHe also said she's been talking to few ppl about how she been feeling and she said its all her it has noting to do with me. She cant control how she feels. I mean its so frustrating i mean what should i do? Should i just leave her alone for while and let her figure stuff out or should i call it a quit. I mean i do love her and do not want this relationship go down the drain. What should i do? I need some advice.
2sunny Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 It's over. She doesn't really need to give you her reason - just accept that it's over by moving forward. Stay busy! 1
Author p1t5e3l0 Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 i think it would help if i had closure
FryFish Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 If there really isnt another guy then you just arent good looking enough for her...
crazylove Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Almost definately has another guy i'm afraid. She has checked out....
Author p1t5e3l0 Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Thanks for your advices I will give her chance to explain her self if she doesnt then I m not gonna sit here and be sad about it because its not my fault.
aisle_seat Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Unfortunately the "being friends" thing is just a cop out on her part; she's trying not to hurt your feelings. Sounds like you're both young and she just may not be ready for commitment. Stop contacting her and move on yourself. It won't be easy...you're hurt and that's tough to get past. But you will and as another poster said, try to keep busy.
2sunny Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Thanks for your advices I will give her chance to explain her self if she doesnt then I m not gonna sit here and be sad about it because its not my fault. She's obviously not going to explain anything. You have your closure. She's not capable of being honest - that she's most likely interested in someone new. That's all there is to know.
lil hoodlum Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I don't know you or your GF, but I agree with the other posters, she most likely is interested in someone else. I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this. I think this is one of the worst ways to bet broken up. You most likely will not get any more explanation. She is showing her selfish and immature side. You deserve to be treated better than this. It will be hare but try to do your best to move forward. In a few weeks or month or so you probably will find out the real reason for the BU.
TaraMaiden Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 i think it would help if i had closure Read my signature.
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