non starter or just keeping me as a back up or what really??

[Shyguy0898]

Went on a date with a women from a dating site, to help explain the story she works nights a lot of consecutive days she has to be very commited and give up a fair bit by the looks of it ,i work nine till 5, so quite hard to see each other or maybe it's not.

 

 

good 1st date fours hours of constant chat no awkward pauses a quick kiss good night at the end. at the end of this date she says she will text me.

 

exchange a handful of texts after the date a few days later, she says she will be away one weekend and difficult with her work but she wont be able to see me for about three weeks, thinking this is a cold brush off but in my limited experience she would just ignore me than suggest another date in three weeks time.

 

anyway no texts for about 2 & 1/2 weeks, she said she would text me but she never did so a few days before the planned date i send her a quick text basically saying hi stranger how are you,she apologies for the non contact been really busy and a few days of texts we confirm the plan of date two.

 

date two, we meet up good date she share far more personal things nothing to personal though, later in the night we go back to hers and i am round there till 4am, we didnt have sex lots of kissing and fondling seemed about three hours , think she was up for more but never forced it.

 

at the the end of the 2nd date she says she will text me,after a few days never hear anything so send her a text after a few texts suggest the possibility of date 3, she says she is mega busy for a few weeks but will give me a buzz, a week passes by no contact from her, also the texts she sent had no x on the end all the previous one's did.

 

i would ring her but with, but with her work she does i know this quite stressfull and draining i don't know when she is sleeping/ and working sometimes.

 

do i just forget this as a non starter or i don't know what to make of the long silences.

[durentu]

Yeah, You'll be better off with someone who has a normal job.

[kaylan]

Shes not into you...if she takes that long to text you then its very obvious. Move on.