Wake_Me_Up Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Funnily enough I'm not the type of guy who chases his ex but the two times I have, I was the dumper. One time was a very short chase then when I was knocked back I didn't try again. The other was a three year relationship which was very chaotic towards the end with several break ups. When I broke up with her, she was chasing me for months then she stopped. Months went by then I suddenly realised that maybe it wasn't the right thing. I think I had the case of grass in greener.... Anyway, I rang her and was very emotional because I heard she was getting engaged to some dude she only knew for a very very short while definitely a rebound guy. She bawled her eyes out saying I abandoned her and now look at the mess she's in. My dumper dumped me two weeks ago. The day she dumped me (over text message) I tried desperately to meet up with her, she kept asking completely cold it was so crazy her going from wanting to be my wife to that anyway. She met up with me that night and I felt pathetic having to suck up her ass just to see her. I didn't ask for her to change her mind just spoke for a while I was pretty emotional I was in shock. She cried a little and then I hugged her and said good luck with everything but you won't hear from me again she went on to say no we can still be friends I said no I don't want you as a friend so goodbye. Don't know if she thought I was really serious but here we are 2 weeks post BU not a peep from me and there will be no peep from me.
weallfalldown Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Likewise. Me too. Ex ended it after almost three years, three months ago. I walked out of his house on May 8th and he never saw me again. ahh but you never saw him either lady.........
KatZee Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 ahh but you never saw him either lady......... That was the point... I didn't WANT to see him. He on the other hand had planned it to be "temporary"... ha! joke's on you little boy.
jackiki Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Well, I did not ask her to reconcile even though after D-day and breaking it off, I wanted to stay with her so badly. I think pride has stopped me from doing so. Nevertheless we are still in contact. Also she was going through a roller coaster during the first two weeks, and told me that she wants me back. I said let us have more time to think about it. Just to figure out later, that the guy she dumped me for was having second thoughts. He changed his mind again, and she told me that she was going to stay with him. Could have managed to win her back at the time, and I wanted to, but I decided to eat ****, endure the pain, and move forward!!
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