AmeliePoulain Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Me and this guy have been exclusively seeing each other for almost a month. He's 28 and I'll be 27 soon. He knows I have been fickle since the beginning. I've told him at first I wasn't looking to date and didn't like the term "dating". At that time that was how I felt but over the course of a few weeks we were pretty much doing dating things. He said awhile back that he hopes this will one day turn into something special or meaningful. But poor guy I've confused him so much because at first I didn't know what I wanted. So I was honest with him last night and told him that when I realized that I do want to keep seeing him and that was why I started initiated contact and asking him to hang out because before it was the other way around. Also last night, I told him that I'd like him to teach me how to drive his stick shift sportscar. He mentioned "haha if you were my girlfriend then I'd love to teach you" it wasn't said in a mean way or in a way that I had to tell him right there i'd be his gf. Eventually, I do think that's where it will go because after he said he also said "but it's up to you (to be his girlfriend)" I know that he'd like that very much. Only thing, because I was so fickle before I want to ease into it. I already feel like a confused girl who doesn't know what she wants, but the more I see him the more I want to reciprocate to show that I am interested back and I have made this obvious now. However, when should I tell him that I would like to be his girlfriend, or should I hold off? I don't see a need to rush anything and neither does he, he's very patient which I like. Do I tell him the next night I see him or wait a couple weeks? And how do I say it "so uh...im your gf now" lol I can't say it like that right? This kind of situation is new to me because I've always been in long-term relationship and was never just "seeing someone".
InJest Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I think you should apologize to him for being indecisive, and then tell him you're ready to make it official.
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