Phillysteaks Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Ex gf left me after living with eachother for 4yrs. She left to live with another guy. She is 21 he is 35 and i am 37. I gave her 30 days to get all her stuff out of my apt. She didnt start moving her stuff out till 2 days before the end of the month. So she still has alot of her clothes here at my house. She left for 4 days to iadho for a family reunion and she said she would get the rest of her stuff out of my house when she gets back. Now its been 3 days since she has been back in town and she has yet to call.me to come get the rest of her stuff. Why is she dragging her feetvwith this. I had ger used to be bf come over and help me clean my house and put all of my ex gf stuff in the closet. I do not want to call her and have a conversation with her. What should ibdo and why OS she doing this.
ding dong Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Ex gf left me after living with eachother for 4yrs. She left to live with another guy. She is 21 he is 35 and i am 37. I gave her 30 days to get all her stuff out of my apt. She didnt start moving her stuff out till 2 days before the end of the month. So she still has alot of her clothes here at my house. She left for 4 days to iadho for a family reunion and she said she would get the rest of her stuff out of my house when she gets back. Now its been 3 days since she has been back in town and she has yet to call.me to come get the rest of her stuff. Why is she dragging her feetvwith this. I had ger used to be bf come over and help me clean my house and put all of my ex gf stuff in the closet. I do not want to call her and have a conversation with her. What should ibdo and why OS she doing this. Interesting.... Im in almost the same boat, I'm 37 she is 21 and we have lived together since March 2012. She up ad moved out 7/11/12 exactly 4 weeks ago tomorrow, I was totally blindsided and we have had No Contact since. IN fact she blocked all my numbers from being able to call her. She took all her 98% of her clothes, all her makeup, 99% of her jewelry...She also kept the garage door opener and security pass to get into our gated community where we live.... We started seeing each other in Aug 2011, split up end of November 2011 and were back together by mid January and she fully moved back into the house in March 2012... All my friends swear she is coming back, she came back before after the first split...maybe thats whats going on with youre girl too?
Author Phillysteaks Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 She has close to 60% of her clothes here and some.of her makeup is till here. I would nevrr take her back as a gf but wouldnt mind pay back sex, you know just bang her and tell her to get her stuff out of here when she is vulnerable. Im sure she is embarrased or feels bad or dumb about ehat she has done, maybe thats why she hasnt bothered to come get her stuff or call for her stuff. I have made good friends with her used to be ex gf. They had a falling out because my ex thinks i am having sex.with her snd she was my ex gf 3 some partner. Me and the friend have been super close to making out and she knows i want to have sex with her but she has a had a bf. she told me recently that her bf cheated on her so im assuming she told me that so next time me and her ar ealone i can make a move on her, hrr friend is insanely hotter than my gf even my gf is super hot as well but this girl is on a whole nothrr.level looks just like c. Theron.....
Mike_d Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 toss her crap in some boxes or garbage bags or whatever, haul them to the self storage, pay for the first month, mail her the key. is what I did during breakup #1, course till I self sabotaged, but that is another story for another day. trick is to get the event behind you and get her crap out of your line of vision
Samilia Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Ex gf left me after living with eachother for 4yrs. She left to live with another guy. She is 21 he is 35 and i am 37. I gave her 30 days to get all her stuff out of my apt. She didnt start moving her stuff out till 2 days before the end of the month. So she still has alot of her clothes here at my house. She left for 4 days to iadho for a family reunion and she said she would get the rest of her stuff out of my house when she gets back. Now its been 3 days since she has been back in town and she has yet to call.me to come get the rest of her stuff. Why is she dragging her feetvwith this. I had ger used to be bf come over and help me clean my house and put all of my ex gf stuff in the closet. I do not want to call her and have a conversation with her. What should ibdo and why OS she doing this. Have a common friend give her a phone call, she gets her stuff by Friday or it ends up on the curve.
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