2muchlove Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Funny just yesterday I was having a great time coping, I thought I was well on my way. Only for some reason the days I have less trouble coping are the only nights I dream about her. So here I am again. I just want her to call saying that everything that happened these past two months was a lie, she just needed time apart to collect her hundred million dollars from the lottery and she found a time machine we can use to go back 11 months before she got crazy and cheated on me. What are the chances? I'd love to hear what others would love to hear from their ex if you don't mind sharing.
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I would like to hear her beg for forgiveness and for her to ask to take her back. Not saying i would take her back but it would be nice to hear it:laugh: 3
Tree_Salmon Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I've already heard it... She told me I was better in every way than her rebound and that she loves me and wants a family with me. Only to be bullied by her bf the next day and take it all back. Now we will never talk again. Truth is we will never hear what we want. This isn't a movie. For the time we met up i thought everything was going to be perfect again but the reality always rears its ugly head.
Author 2muchlove Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 I would like to hear her beg for forgiveness and for her to ask to take her back. Not saying i would take her back but it would be nice to hear it:laugh: Amen, brother. I'm the same way. It would be nice to get that power back. Actually it would be nice to just move on with the snap of a finger. @treesalmon Every situation is unique. If she did that while still with her current boyfriend she still has no idea what she's doing or wants. But I hear you. They're called fairy tales for a reason.
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 i'd love to hear......you really were everything to me.....i miss you so much....yea right. i worked out even if we did sort it out, i'd always be insecure thinking is she gona be happy?....when's it gona be till we **** up again...and you can't live like that i know.... So me even thinking it would work is dillusional at best. (even though i ****ed up and text her again)
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 My ex called me 2 days ago, and told me she cant live without me and begged me to be friends. I said no and it gave me a little bit of power but she still never said what i wanted to hear. And besides if you cant live without someone you would just get back together with them. Theres something mentally wrong with her i think. 1
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 My ex called me 2 days ago, and told me she cant live without me and begged me to be friends. I said no and it gave me a little bit of power but she still never said what i wanted to hear. And besides if you cant live without someone you would just get back together with them. Theres something mentally wrong with her i think. i can't remember, did you dump her????
Author 2muchlove Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 i'd love to hear......you really were everything to me.....i miss you so much....yea right. i worked out even if we did sort it out, i'd always be insecure thinking is she gona be happy?....when's it gona be till we **** up again...and you can't live like that i know.... So me even thinking it would work is dillusional at best. (even though i ****ed up and text her again) Yea man, I guess that's why growing apart from them is so important in case you try a year or two down the line to rekindle things. It's all good though. I cracked once or twice in the beginning and still struggle not to say something to her. Just gotta brush yourself off and stand by what you said no matter what. My ex called me 2 days ago, and told me she cant live without me and begged me to be friends. I said no and it gave me a little bit of power but she still never said what i wanted to hear. And besides if you cant live without someone you would just get back together with them. Theres something mentally wrong with her i think. I feel like everyone has mental issues at one point or another in their lifetime. But that's nice you got to hear that from her at least. Most people on this site would kill to hear that from their ex. A big part of me is glad I don't hear from her though. Helps knowing we don't take any steps back. 1
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 i can't remember, did you dump her???? She dumped me because she didnt want a relationship
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I don't hear from mine, because app i'm all to blame for everything....and i know for a fact she has severe emotional issues, she admitted to me that she was " ****ed up" when i met her.....but the little head was working over time to grab that red flag.......C*** struck as we put it
Tree_Salmon Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 My ex called me 2 days ago, and told me she cant live without me and begged me to be friends. I said no and it gave me a little bit of power but she still never said what i wanted to hear. And besides if you cant live without someone you would just get back together with them. Theres something mentally wrong with her i think. Matt our situations sound very similar from what ive read on your other posts. Some of these girls have massive issues and we might be better off staying away. 1
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 She dumped me because she didnt want a relationship matt i had the same with my ex......dunno how old you are?...i'm 37. anyway.....she was a bit cold when i first met her, i reckon she was still recovering from a previous relationship, and she freaked out on me after an argument and wanted space etc i told her to stop messin with my head...well anyway we sorted it out and she fell full on in love with me...... but be warned, once they mess with your head like that in the beginning, it always puts doubts in your head about the way they are..... well with me anyway.
BeautyRush Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I would like him to kneel on beans, cry a river, apologize everyday for a month, and beg me to come back with a promise that he will change his ways by seeking serious help. 3
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Matt our situations sound very similar from what ive read on your other posts. Some of these girls have massive issues and we might be better off staying away. I havent read your posts yet i dont think, what is your situation? And yeah true i have come to realise that the past few days that maybe it is better to just leave it because some girls really are ****ed up mentally.
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I would like him to kneel on beans, cry a river, apologize everyday for a month, and beg me to come back with a promise that he will change his ways by seeking serious help. yea....there is only so much help you can get......and i've noticed if you try and change someone......it sometimes or does have the adverse effect, causing serious issues....not saying that to you personaly:D
Mike_d Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 continued silence even if she said all those things they are just words. I've had years of words and zero action - used to joke, seems Freudian now looking at it here - about NATO being an acronym for No Action Talk Only. little did I know how much truth there was in that as it applied to me... If she actually did something then that would be something to look at, followed through with actions on her tearful pleas of "I want to be with you" "I see us living together in the house" "I really want us back" and all the other emotional tugs on my heartstrings that she knew I would react to - but when I tell her that I'd like to talk about these things to see what we can do I get crickets. so I have my message silence is best for all involved 2
Author 2muchlove Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 matt i had the same with my ex......dunno how old you are?...i'm 37. anyway.....she was a bit cold when i first met her, i reckon she was still recovering from a previous relationship, and she freaked out on me after an argument and wanted space etc i told her to stop messin with my head...well anyway we sorted it out and she fell full on in love with me...... but be warned, once they mess with your head like that in the beginning, it always puts doubts in your head about the way they are..... well with me anyway. Yea my ex was crazy from the get go, but I f*ckin dug it. I loved every second of her craziness. Loved it when she got jealous for no reason. Loved it when she blew up at the smallest incidents. Loved how self conscious she was even though she was a smoke show. She could put me in my place for the most part. We're both young and crazy. Probably had something to do with why we didn't work. I would like him to kneel on beans, cry a river, apologize everyday for a month, and beg me to come back with a promise that he will change his ways by seeking serious help. Love it. I'll take this as well. 2
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 matt i had the same with my ex......dunno how old you are?...i'm 37. anyway.....she was a bit cold when i first met her, i reckon she was still recovering from a previous relationship, and she freaked out on me after an argument and wanted space etc i told her to stop messin with my head...well anyway we sorted it out and she fell full on in love with me...... but be warned, once they mess with your head like that in the beginning, it always puts doubts in your head about the way they are..... well with me anyway. Im 17 yeah im young but i was with her for 2 years and we where a pretty mature couple for our age. There was always something wrong with her anyway when we was together she always used to put doubts in my head.
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Yea my ex was crazy from the get go, but I f*ckin dug it. I loved every second of her craziness. Loved it when she got jealous for no reason. Loved it when she blew up at the smallest incidents. Loved how self conscious she was even though she was a smoke show. She could put me in my place for the most part. We're both young and crazy. Probably had something to do with why we didn't work. Love it. I'll take this as well. Same my ex was crazy but i loved it and it always kept me going back for more and i dont know why? She used to go nuts if i done the tiniest thing wrong, i walked to her house one day when she told me to walk to her nans and she ****ing hit the roof she went ape ****. She is also still very jelous i told her my ex messaged me 2 days ago and she hit the roof. She is nuts!
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Im 17 yeah im young but i was with her for 2 years and we where a pretty mature couple for our age. There was always something wrong with her anyway when we was together she always used to put doubts in my head. i sincerely hope your not in my position at 37 dude......your young you'll get over it in no time,,, 1
Matt145 Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 i sincerely hope your not in my position at 37 dude......your young you'll get over it in no time,,, Thanks mate, and i can only imagine how hard it must be for you.
BeautyRush Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 yea....there is only so much help you can get......and i've noticed if you try and change someone......it sometimes or does have the adverse effect, causing serious issues....not saying that to you personaly:D Hahaha no comment! I was just answering the poster's question.
KatZee Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 "I'm a gigantic piece of sh*t, I truly realize what a selfish, self-centered, manipulative as*hole I've been. I'm a pathetic cheater and I'm an habitual liar and I'm seeking therapy to help with all my inner demons and character flaws. I've realized now that I need extensive extensive therapy, I'm also learning how to communicate and work through problems instead of running away. You are the one that got away. You're amazing." 4
weallfalldown Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 "I'm a gigantic piece of sh*t, I truly realize what a selfish, self-centered, manipulative as*hole I've been. I'm a pathetic cheater and I'm an habitual liar and I'm seeking therapy to help with all my inner demons and character flaws. I've realized now that I need extensive extensive therapy, I'm also learning how to communicate and work through problems instead of running away. You are the one that got away. You're amazing." well you never know......you dumped him hey....
Treasa Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 "I'm dying, but I left you everything in my will." 3
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