Barclay Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 (edited) Hi, Thanks for reading. Just to get you up to speed. I have basically been dating this girl i know from work, different company but same building. We went on around 4 dates in a space of a week and we seemed to hit it off really well. I had to go away with my work for a week and when i returned everything seemed to change. She is from another country and is living here 1 year now. When i was away she had friends from her home country visit her early and unexpected. They are touring europe but came 4 weeks early for whatever reason. She basically told me in this time that they are here she would not be able to commit to any time to me. I wasnt sure if if was a blow off so i pushed a bit and asked her and she said she has got all emotional and is feeling homesick etc and doesnt know what she wants. Ive left things for a few weeks, we still chat when we bump into each other and we arranged to go for a lunch date. 40 mins before she cancelled on me and suggested the next day. I agreed and that next day i tex her to confirm the time etc she text me back saying all was good. 3 mins before our lunch date she cancelled on me with the same excuse that something came up with work, apologised for messing me around and again suggested the next day. I didnt bother texting or calling the next day and she didnt call me either. I bumped into her later in the afternoon and she was saying she was feeling really down etc. This was thursday. On the Friday, we bumped into each other again ( she was in a much better mood) and agreed to meet for a ciggy break at 2:00. She said she would text me. She didnt text and my work college was out smoking and said to me that she had been waiting outside for me, later that day i caught hold of her and asked her plans for the weekend. She was busy but said she would be free next weekend for a drink. I said to her only if she wants (was concerned about the flaking behaviour) to and she said she did 100%. She hugged me goodbye but would not kiss me stating she was shy etc. She is on holiday now for 1 week so is back on friday. Should i call/text contact her while she is away to ask about saturday or ring her on saturday instead. Or not ring at all and let her come to me. Im almost postive she will not ring me, its not really in a girl nature for this. I never been in a situation where ive been flaked on so much, she is a little weird with phone and text messages as well. She never replies to mine know more. Only to confirm something or state she cant make something. (i dont text her alot for the record) I like her alot and have given her the space she needed but dont really know how to proceed, up untill her friend arrived i felt i was much in control but now its like she has lost intrest and the more she has backed away i guess the more i have come accross as a bit needy. I need to get back the alpha male mysterious image again. Edited August 7, 2012 by Barclay
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