Boyfriend flirting with my friend

[Mimi99]

I introduced my boyfriend to this really outgoing, pretty, married female friend of mine. They hit it off right away, We hang out a couple of times together, he asked me for her number and is now calling her and chatting away. He'll be taking her kids out to play soon. What is going on? Is this appropriate? I honestly don't know what to think. He's a friendly guy and has a bunch of female friends, but him giving her more attention than me, kind of makes me jealous. Do you think i'm just overreacting?

[Mimi99]

Thanks for the reply. Yes, WTF is right. My friend started to act really ridiculous around him. Why can't her husband be enough for her. Anyway, I confronted him about it and he said he wasn't interested in her that way. He said that he loves kids so much and can't wait to to have his own. He wanted to take her kids out.... Which was wrong of him to do without me present anyway. I'm pissed!!! he appologized anyway, but now he's giving me the cold shoulder. What?!! I texted him asking him if he wants to stop seeing me. I think he's avoiding talking to me cause I told him that we need to talk. He keeps on saying he's busy with work and that he'll call me later. I've developed feelings for this guy and thought he was real special and now I don't know what to do.

[Radu]

Is he usually a conflict-avoider ?

[Mimi99]

Don't really know, we've been dating for a month now, but have been seeing each other almost everday of the week. But, looks like he is a conflict avoider. I'm driving myself crazy waiting for him to call me. I just sent him a text saying that "im confused and that i need him to clear things up for me." I miss him terribly. Should I just give up at this point and forget about him?

[HHC]

Thanks for the reply. Yes, WTF is right. My friend started to act really ridiculous around him. Why can't her husband be enough for her. Anyway, I confronted him about it and he said he wasn't interested in her that way..

WHat?? Women aren't allowed to socialise when they get married? Can't have friends outside their house?

[Mimi99]

Sure women can socialize outside of marriage but not with their friend's boyfriends. I think it's kind of weird when your friend texts and calls your boyfriend after knowing him for only 3 days.