Talking to this girl I added on facebook.

[Boatrider]

I met this girl very briefly in high school and we never really talked at all. I figured I would send her a request and see where that got me. She accepted it, then I sent her a message saying hi, but I never got a reply back and I know she saw. Does this mean she not into me or should I try to chat with her when she's online because I sent her a message offline? I would think its kinda weird to accept a friend request but ignore them after that! I would definitely want to do this in person but I never see her and just wanted to see if I could meet up in person through this. I appreciate the responses.

[Boatrider]

I have had a bad break up too recently and was wondering what should I do, I think I would really like this girl and don't want to give up so easily but I don't want to be wasting my time either.

[Boatrider]

Well thats not very encouraging lol

[skyisfalling]

You guys never talked, how could you think she is into you? And a friend request is just a friend request nothing more. Don't read into it. If someone friend requested me and sent me a message and I didn't know him, I wouldn't think YAY HE'S ASKING ME OUT ON A DATE. She's not talking to you because she's either not interested, she already has a bf, or she doesn't know you. So, use the time to get to know other girls at your school.

[Boatrider]

I never thought that she was into me I just thought we could at least talk and get to know each other better. Why accept a friend request if you never going to talk to the person?

[Boatrider]

Well if everyone was like this then how is a relationship started? If she was going to be like that why not just cut it off at the friend request?

[KungFuJoe]

Accepting a friend request is NOTHING. I talk to maybe 10% of my facebook friends irl.

 

She's probably not interested.

[The Way I Am]

Well if everyone was like this then how is a relationship started?

 

Usually by talking to people in person. I'm sure there are some cases, but I don't know a single person who started their relationship on Facebook.

 

If she was going to be like that why not just cut it off at the friend request?

Everybody accepts friend requests from people they were/are in school with unless they absolutely don't like the person. Accepting a friend request doesn't mean anything other than he doesn't hate your guts.

 

She didn't reply, so you assume she's not interested and move on. If she does something different like suddenly starts commenting on your pics about how cute you are, then maybe you have a shot.

 

If you keep messaging her, she's going to get annoyed with you.

 

There's a chance that she's not replied because she really doesn't know you enough to have interest or disinterest. Though if she's single and thought you were cute, she probably would have replied.

 

If you really want to start a conversation with this girl and can't just move on, you can try to do so over time by commenting on her posts. Some guidelines though:

 

• Don't comment on any past posts. Only comment on new stuff.
  
• Don't click "like" on everything she posts
  
• Don't talk about how cute she looks in her pics until/unless you get responses from her that are flirty
  
• Make comments that are interesting or funny. Don't confuse rude or creepy with funny.
  
• Don't expect a response back. If you get one, great. Chances are you won't though, so don't get your hopes too high.
  

[Boatrider]

Well everybody I manned up and decided to chat with her today. We had a pretty decent conversion for an hour and then it got late so we got off. So whats next from here? I am going to try to get her number and then hopefully meet up somewhere.