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Should I stop talking to him??


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Hi everyone. I'm 24 and I have been talking to this man for four months now. We talk everyday but we have never gone out on a serious date. He has come to see me a couple of times at my house (outside since I live with my parents). I've gone to his house countless times and whenever I go we make out and stuff. We dont have sex as I'm a virgin and I feel like I'd get serious heartbreak if I did it with him.

He didnt know before that I'm a virgin and yet he didnt pressure me into having sex with him. When he came to find out he still didnt pressure me to have sex with him in fact he told me to keep it! :confused:

Once we had an argument, I deleted him from my phone's messenger and he was calling me over and over to ask me why I deleted him. We later made up and I put him back on and we carried on our friendship or whatever it is. He doesnt seem to want to stop talking to me and when I get angry at him he usually apologizes to me and we keep texting. Sometimes when he wakes up in the middle of the night and finds my text he texts me back :) (i'm a light sleeper)

He once came to see me outside my house and we talked for over an hour in his car. He then kind of hinted he cared about me. He specifically said "if you had a problem I would help you out unless I was limited in some way" I think he says this because I try to help him whenever he has a problem nothing major but like.. when his car broke down once I said I could take him where he had to go.. stuff like that..He says I'm "soo nice" and "sweet" and "delicate" when it comes to love.

I really really like him and i know it seems like an open and shut case, that i should forget him but I need you to tell me what you think and the logic behind, basing on my story.

Should I stop talking to him to avoid further disappointment? I feel like my feelings for him increase as I keep talking and making out with him from time to time

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I am allowed to have people inside but there's no privacy. So thats why we sit in his car outside and talk.

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