kevinsan Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I started an internship 2 months ago and I met this girl who also just started. Whenever we saw eachother our faces lit up, we both couldn't stop smiling whenever we talked (which in the beginning was just on the bus) After 2 weeks or so I learned that she had a boyfriend, but I figured I would still talk to her. Multiple people in the office asked me if we were a thing, but I told them she had a boyfriend. So I know I'm not crazy thinking that we had a connection. We got to know eachother pretty well, we watch the same tv shows, we started eating lunch together recently, and we practiced our presentations together two days in a row. When she did hers, she couldnt stop giggling because I was looking at her. I thought that was a sign she likes me. But she almost never responds to my emails. I asked one time if she wanted to go to lunch together and no response. But she showed up. We recently started going to lunch together for about a week, but she didn't show up today. And I sent an email asking about lunch and she didn't respond. After other peoples presentations on friday, she came over to my room for an hour before the end of work. The weird part is I was resisting the temptation to send her an email asking if she wanted to just hang out the last hour. She came over before I sent anything. She said she looked me up on facebook and couldnt find me, so to add her. I feel like we're becoming good friends and then all of a sudden she'll seem to ignore me completely for a day or two. Or she'll catch different buses than me and I don't know if thats her trying to avoid me for the day. When she came over on friday, I broke the "touch" barrier when I was showing her what fat felt like on her arm. She had no fat, but I was pretending like I knew what I was talking about. She seems more comfortable around me than when we first met, but we still might stare longer than normal. Basically, I'm having trouble figuring her out. She seems to be in a good mood when we're together and she sometimes comes to meet me. But other times she doesn't respond to emails and doesn't care if we go a couple days without talking. Also, I havent been getting much sleep because of this so I think I might becoming paranoid or anxious just a little. Any advice would be appreciated.
yongyong Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 well she is just flirting with you in a work environment. she even has a bf. I would just treat her like other employees and start flirting with other women. When she gets really jealous, casually ask her if she wants to meet you for a drink. I wouldn't invest my time with a chick who has a bf on casual dates. don't even waste your time unless she wants to come to your house or meet you at a bar.
Author kevinsan Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 Thank you for reading it and giving me feedback. I think thats a good idea, I'll try to forget about her for awhile. Also, should I not send anymore emails until she contacts me?
yongyong Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 hell no. once she ignores your email. that's it. Thank you for reading it and giving me feedback. I think thats a good idea, I'll try to forget about her for awhile. Also, should I not send anymore emails until she contacts me?
Author kevinsan Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 she saw i searched loveshack.org. She might see this and know its me cause i always pick kevinsan as a username. Or i really am going crazy
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