Breck Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 (edited) Quick recap. Ex was in a 3 year relationship with someone else. Was single for 2 years and then we met. We were together for 3 months. The relationship moved really fast! She said I was the first person to make her forget about her ex and she hadn't been this happy in years. We were really happy together. Then insecurities kicked in and she would get upset because she started to feel "not good enough" and unappreciated, just as her ex made her feel. After a stressful night where she didn't feel accepted by me and we miss communicated, she broke up with me over the phone in tears and told me she wanted to end things before either of us get too hurt. We have mutual friends so over the next 3 months we've run into each other a handful of times. At first she was friendly. Then she tried to make me jealous on Facebook (posting photos of her with every guy she could find which is completely unlike her). Now she will say hello in person but follows that up by being distant and avoidant when we hang out in groups. What doesn't make sense is we'll have friendly conversations via text. I want her back, but I'm also the dumpee which makes my position more difficult. I hate how we avoid each other while out with the same circle of friends and how she moves as far away from me as possible only to have a friendly conversation over text. I should also mention that she has never once told me to move on or that we should move forward, date other people, etc. She just avoids me and the 2 times I asked her to meet up, she was busy. Any advice? Edited August 6, 2012 by Breck
weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 god, women with issues.....my ex brought so many from her previous r/p into ours, i wandered who i actually was.... Give her some time to maybe miss ya....
Author Breck Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 god, women with issues.....my ex brought so many from her previous r/p into ours, i wandered who i actually was.... Give her some time to maybe miss ya.... I appreciate the response! Three months is kind of a long time? Give her another 3 months? What's hard for me right now is that she's impacting my dating life. I go on dates, but I ultimately compare my dates to her and wish I was with my ex.
Author Breck Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 (edited) I'm finding it hard to figure out why she is being so distant from me in person recently when it hasn't been like that the first couple of months? I haven't done anything differently. Is she distant now because she wants me to have to work for her attention and annoyed that I haven't done anything or distant because she just wants to move on without going through the emotional cycle? She's always a happy person but when I'm around her she is so serious and she doesn't smile. She is currently single so it isn't as though she is seeing someone. Insight from a female? If you've moved forward wouldn't it be easy to talk to your ex? Edited August 7, 2012 by Breck
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