BBB08 Posted July 13, 2004 Posted July 13, 2004 Hi i just would like some help out there. I'll just get to the meat of the story. Met a girl, we started going out, it was perfect, laughter, good times everything. She would even say she was lucky to be with me. She's 19 and I'm 23. Then in February out of the blue she says I don't think i can see you anymore. I was hurt but agreed. Couple of days later she leaves a message on my phone that she can't be with out me and she wants me back. So I agree. Things going great again till she had about one month left of school. Then she kinda really hurt me. I was supposed to go visit her and she said she would call me that day but no call, left high and dry. So then I left her a message cuz she would not pick up that we should go on a break, cuz i was so angry and hurt. Well I left another messagae apologizing and said if she doesn't respond i'll understand. She sends a text message saying " I was starting to fall in love and I'm afraid of commitment, among school and work it was to much, I'm so sorry" this gave me some closure so i felt that i got an answer, but then she asked if I was in "LOVE" with her. We still talked over the computer and occasionally over the phone. And it was OK, but then all of a sudden she started to get mean. Like pretending to be busy and just being mean for no reason, when i just was being friendlly. Deep down, I know she still really likes me. I just don't know why be mean and nasty. Our break up wasn't nasty and we never fought. She said she needed to finish school, school is done now its a waiting game to see who will contact who. I tried arranging a day but she just answers in a mean way that she's busy and doesnt know when she works. I've blocked her on computer and i can see her online now, she's been online for a week straight. But i'm not unblocking her. She's one of those girls who's used to guy's chasing her and writing love letters and all that ****. Well i think she's pissed at me cuz she really likes me and i'm not being ROMEO, I still have my self respect. And if this does work out, in the future she'll know that i won't put up with her games, and if not. I won't be one of the guy's she's ****ed up emotionally. Anyone with some insight would be appreciated. Thanks
EC Posted July 13, 2004 Posted July 13, 2004 Maybe thats why shes scared.... She's used to the romeo guys and all that mushy stuff and Your not that way. She said she started falling in love with you and got scared maybe becuase since your not the romeo kind she feels you dont feel the same way and she doesnt want to get hurt. The mean and nasty part can relate to her being scared. well it might and I'm saying that because when I realized I was falling in love I freaked out and started acting mean and I didn't even know why. I would avoid phone calls sometimes and everything and he would ask me to hang out and I would cancel and say I had other plans and I was madly in love. I was younger then though I grew out of it. Thats another thing, your 23 shes 19 not bad but maybe shes just not at the same level with you. Wait it out and I know you want to keep your self-respect and all but just talk to her and tell her what your feeling. Communication is key.
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