BeastfromtheEast Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 So I've known this woman for about a year now. We learned to be friends before going any further and we've always had feelings for eachother. We've been seriously dating for almost 4 months now and I'm feeling like she doesn't care anymore. We only live a state away from eachother but she's in college and I work a lot. All we ever do is play xbox together and watch netflix on there or play games, etc. It's really the only way I get to spend time with her. Phone calls and texts happen but xbox is the main thing. We've always spent all of our time together and I've never put anything before her. I've had 100% devotion and I even spend money on her and send her things in the mail all the time. Lately, she's been putting her friends on xbox before me, crazy right? I understand hanging out in real life with your REAL LIFE FRIENDS but to put people that you meet in games before me when you claim that you love me more than anything else... I find this ridiculous. I work night shifts all week, usually from 4-10 pm and we really only get a little bit of the night together other than the early part of the day but lately, we don't even get that anymore because she decides her friends are more important. Now, when I get days off she wont even spend the whole day with me when she can. I understand playing with your friends WHEN I'M AT WORK, but give me some time! Am I right? I plead to her to spend atleast a day with me on one of my days off and she says maybe. It's never been like this before. I've done nothing but spill my heart out for this woman, breaking my bank and my back. How can I make her want to spend all of her time with me again without doing anything destructive to an already near failing relationship? PLEASE HELP!
TMichaels Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 Have you two ever met/spent time with each other in person? Or is this an online relationship only? Best, TMichaels
Author BeastfromtheEast Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 It's online but we plan on meeting in october
justwhoiam Posted August 9, 2012 Posted August 9, 2012 I really don't know what to say here. What's your age gap? I don't see how a girl would want a bf to only play videogames with. It's just natural she prefers to play videogames with her friends or mere acquaintancies. It'd be odd to me if she liked to play videogames with you. Honestly. I mean, now and then I wouldn't mind. But not all the time and for sure not if that's the only thing happening with him. It looks like you put yourself in the friend zone.
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