sage1320 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 hey guys, well it's been 42 days since we last talked and it's been killing me still..Some days are better than others..today is really hard cause I want to call her anyways..We were together for 11 years on and off so you can see why this is so hard..After having someone in your life for so long..-sigh-- Well..we have been no contact..she deleted me from skype and facebook..I know that she still cares about me because she asks my brother How I am doing from time to time...According to my brother, She is thinking of visiting me before she leaves on her 1 year mission trip..but she isn't sure about the idea..I know if she wants to talk to me she would of called me all ready..she knows my number, where I live,knows my email..-sigh- I understand no contact is good for me to move on..but its really hard. sometimes I feel no contact will only make her think I do not care about her anymore.. suggestions? should I try to contact her?
weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Hi, well my relationship wasn't quite as long, but i have broken contact after 2 months....now my situation might be different, as my ex was and still is very resentfull towards me, so it wasn't a good idea to brake n/c, even if your ex is ok.....i wouldn't suggest all the hard work you've done by breaking it.
BrokenAnna Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 What do you want to achieve? Reconcile? Cause I can tell you from first hand experience that contact truly screws you over and makes it unbelievably hard to move on.
Author sage1320 Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 What do you want to achieve? Reconcile? Cause I can tell you from first hand experience that contact truly screws you over and makes it unbelievably hard to move on. yes, reconcile..I mean after 11 years..at least save our friendship..
Art_Critic Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 yes, reconcile..I mean after 11 years..at least save our friendship.. what would change.. she is leaving... No.. you should not contact her
BrokenAnna Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 yes, reconcile..I mean after 11 years..at least save our friendship.. Believe it or not I am trying to save my relationship of 12 years as well. His mom told me to let the dust settle and give him time and that is what I am currently doing...though we are friends after I surprised him for his birthday, it is not exactly the kind of friendship I had in mind...we hardly communicate. So you should ask yourself would you be happy with such a friendship? I sure aint!
Author sage1320 Posted August 7, 2012 Author Posted August 7, 2012 His mom told me to let the dust settle and give him time and that is what I am currently doing yeah, her mother told me the same thing...to give her space..She also mention that she really loves me and her desire is for us to work out..and also not to think that she is with some other guy...
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