weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Going through a breakup, i never find other women attractive, no matter how pretty................is this commonplace, as i can't stretch my memory enough...
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 that's so true. its been over a month since my BU and I've been asked out on a date by 3 different guys but i just cant do it. All my friends think they are all so attractive and charming but not me. My ex is all i really want and i miss him beyond anything. its sad how one of the guys who asked me out used to be my high school crush from like 4 years ago. now i get really annoyed by guys trying to tlk to me cuz hes all i think about. UGH that's just so sad
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 do you also feel unattractive?.....and like ****?.....sorry i'll stop with the depressing crap...
Matt145 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I feel the same, i also feel like i dont want to talk to any other girls aswell.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 start off with the mingers...haha....and work up the ladder untill your confidence is up...now my memory is coming home haha.....
Floored Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 that's so true. its been over a month since my BU and I've been asked out on a date by 3 different guys but i just cant do it. All my friends think they are all so attractive and charming but not me. My ex is all i really want and i miss him beyond anything. its sad how one of the guys who asked me out used to be my high school crush from like 4 years ago. now i get really annoyed by guys trying to tlk to me cuz hes all i think about. UGH that's just so sad You doing anything this Friday? I know a cool place to food.
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 (edited) do you also feel unattractive?.....and like ****?.....sorry i'll stop with the depressing crap... its OK i feel the same way you do...i've been hitting the gym hard. i guess when we're dumped our ego and self esteem goes out the window and this is were all these feelings unattractive and shi**y feelings comes from. but i'm going through the same roller coaster of emotions Edited August 6, 2012 by SoConfusedAndInShock
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 You doing anything this Friday? I know a cool place to food. ohhh HELLOOOO lol as of right now im all free 1
confusedforlife Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 i know exactly how you feel. ive been dumped recently, and looking at other guys or even receiving attention from them makes me sick. its like, all i want is my ex...noone else. 1
SoConfusedAndInShock Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 yup pretty much sums it up...while hes out there drinking, smoking, dating im at home feeling kind of sorry for myself. how pathetic!!! i deserve so much better than how he handled things.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 yea but the bottom line is, your giving yourself time, which means when you do feel better, you'll enjoy meeting someone else that much more...more so than he will....
lovehurts5 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I wonder why this happens. I feel the same exact way. It's been 3 months since my BU and I pretty much force myself to find other guys attractive. If I see a pic of my ex that's all I seem to want. If only we can get the same appearance only with a personality that actually deserves what we've got to offer..
Floored Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 ohhh HELLOOOO lol as of right now im all free I really wish it were this easy. Maybe it is? Haven't even cared to try, same as everyone else in the thread. Only girl that's sparked any flash of interest... looks about 98% like my ex, only a little taller and different eyes. Oops. 1
Appleness Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I bet some of you still have pics of your ex, right? Go here: Age Me | See yourself get older by 5, 10, 20 or more years. Input their picture and look at what they look like at 50. Then imagine them telling you that they no longer find you attractive, that you're too fat, old, stupid, etc.... Truth is, if you ex is young and cute now and they're being stupid, it's going to hurt so much more years down the road.... Hope this helps!
Recommended Posts