weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Phoned my ex from a diff no lol.... Very harsh voice... Just wanted to ask her how's she's doing as we all do had nothing but......i don't need you messing my head up anymore Your head/....what about mine>? Oh well......she's happier and settled wierd that was well wierd Kept saying she had to go..but didn't **** it.......i asked her if she was seeing anyone else like you do " i don't want to talk about that kind of stuff " hmmmm.....her business i suppose, this is what i mean by there's never any closure...........
theskyisblue Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Hey man, I seem to speak to you just after you've phoned your ex, or her mum I think it was. How did you get on with this call? Do you feel any better after it?
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 not reallt dude.....her voice was very low and harsh.....she said why am i ringing, and if she had wanted to talk she would have text etc......just makes me realise how much of a bitch she is.....
Tree_Salmon Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 let it go. stop calling. you're only pushing her away. pretend she never existed and live your life.
theskyisblue Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I think that Tree salmon makes a good argument. If the relationship is done it's best to not keep contacting her. If she wants to speak to you she has got your details. I used to really like speaking to my gf but when she became an ex, all of the conversations eventually seem to steer towards relationship talk which is completely exhausting. Best to leave her to it I think.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 yea i know......taht's rhe first time i've spoken to her in 2 months....i haven't hounded her......**** it, again, i say that's prob what i needed, but i'm a true scorpio....we never forget!
Tree_Salmon Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 The key is being completely cool and happy with yourself. The second you show her that she has power over you and that you've been obsessing she will lose all attraction(respect). This isn't important just for her but more so for you. You need to get to a place where you are indifferent about being with her.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 yea and like a fool, i told her i missed her, and thought about her.....she said please don't say that now......i give up.....it's only been 2 months since we split, so i think i've been giving myself too much of a bashing trying to get over it......i'm impulsive.....my worst trait....
theskyisblue Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Tree salmon - question for you. You're giving some good advice there but do you think if you're in a place where you are indifferent that works? Being indifferent sounds like such a good place to be in and I guess that's when if the other person wants to be with you in you can choose if you want to be with her, or she doesn't want to be with you and you are indifferent to it anyway.
theskyisblue Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Weallfalldown - you sound like you've been struggling with this. Have you got other stuff to keep you busy. It's so difficult, man I miss being able to have a good talk with her.
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 indifferent as in,,not bothered?...........if so......were'e on here moaning because we still wanna be with them, so indifference if your meaning is correct, doesn't come into play until way down the line, when we've nearly moved on?....
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 Weallfalldown - you sound like you've been struggling with this. Have you got other stuff to keep you busy. It's so difficult, man I miss being able to have a good talk with her. yea i am....prob because i got blind drunk on sat, and i'm still feeling rough now.....alcohol is a depressant as we know anyways. **** it i'll be ok...
Chi townD Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 One of the better quotes I've heard on this site is that you can't start reading the next chapter if you keep re-reading the one you're on!
Author weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 very true........i need a new book
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