IST Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 She finally blocked me and gave me the old "**** OFF".
Canadian731 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I take it you are the "needy and crazy ex" type of guy. Go get some help, if you pushed so hard she had to block you something is wrong buddy. Quit pursuing this girl because you are getting NOWHERE FAST.
Author IST Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 I take it you are the "needy and crazy ex" type of guy. Go get some help, if you pushed so hard she had to block you something is wrong buddy. Quit pursuing this girl because you are getting NOWHERE FAST. Suppose I did become pretty needy. I wasn't for most of the relationship (in fact the opposite, she said several times she didn't feel like I cared), but the last few days of it and post break up I was pretty bad at times. There's a lesson in this. I knew the mistakes I was making as I was making them and I did what I did anyway. That said, she didn't block me solely because of needy/clingyness. She was pissed at me for other reasons that kind of pushed her over the edge. Kind of wish I could apologize but that won't be received very well anytime soon.
TaraMaiden Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Suppose I did become pretty needy. I wasn't for most of the relationship (in fact the opposite, she said several times she didn't feel like I cared), but the last few days of it and post break up I was pretty bad at times. There's a lesson in this. I knew the mistakes I was making as I was making them and I did what I did anyway..... You need to use the bolded part as your signature, if only as a lesson to others that some damage is irreparable..... sorry you had to find out the hard way....
Author IST Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 You need to use the bolded part as your signature, if only as a lesson to others that some damage is irreparable..... sorry you had to find out the hard way.... I don't believe in irreparable. The lesson here is one of patience and self-control. You can't force something to heal faster you have to give it the necessary time and space.
TaraMaiden Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 You plan on getting back with her? She's told you to finally f.u.c.k off...? you do realise that's about as irreparable as it gets..... yeah? Two hopes: Bob, and No. focus - on repairing yourself. This, with her? It's going nowhere.....
Author IST Posted August 6, 2012 Author Posted August 6, 2012 You plan on getting back with her? No. But I do think a year or two down the road, we could be friends.
blotter Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Yeah women love to be friends with their pathetic, wimpy ex boyfriends.
Sav Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Yeah women love to be friends with their pathetic, wimpy ex boyfriends. I'm friends with my ex-gf of 4 years. NC of 1.5 years. its possible to keep things at a platonic level
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