Brokendude Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 Ive been doing well and kept busy and i thought i was getting better and last night i got a text from a stupid kid from my high school saying he spotted my ex dancing w guys at a club....hes stupid telling me and he realized it and was sorry. I kno it shouldnt matter anymore what she does but this news sent me into such a hole of depression, ive been battling it all day did school work, ran, gymmed and i still cant shake it off... So hard to believe that im grieving and shes having a ball, it pains me so much and i really feel so helpless, im depressed beyond belief and feela like im back to day 1. I cant shake this off guys i dont kno what to do i feel so devastated
Author Brokendude Posted August 5, 2012 Author Posted August 5, 2012 By the way im 29 the kid WAS from my high school back in the days
Canadian731 Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 Women grieve in different ways then men, they have such a sense of neediness for a man to be in their life that they seem to get over it quicker, but in the end it will hit her that you are gone and she will realize all the good things she didn't miss at first. Look at this positively, it may seem like she is over you now, but in a months or a few months time she will grieve it and you will be ready to move on. 1
Dblock10 Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 hmm try hearing it from your ex directly. mine told me what shes been up to in detail.. needless to say i stopped talking to her because i realised whats the point? but i get your pain. you have to just not care about it anymore, only when you dont care and have no hope will you feel or begin to feel a bit better about things
jmjacobs31 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 I know how you feel. I hear what my ex is up to all the time because we have mutual friends. I just heard this that he was complaining that I was up at my friends cabin, that just happens to be owned by his aunt, over the 4th of July. It pissed me off because it was something he didn't need to bring up to our friends or his aunt as I don't want to put them in the middle of our situation. I can see why you are so upset. I know my ex is out with other girls, and has been since the second we broke up. It kills me to know hes out with other girls having a hay day while I am a mess.
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