Iron Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 My college girlfriend came to my area for a work conference for a few days. I have had limited contact with her over the years, but it has been friendly. She met my wife and the 3 of us went out one night and had a great time. We got along as well as could be expected after all these years. The ex revealed that she's going through a divorce - her husband walked out on her and the 2 kids several months ago. I already had my ex's facebook and phone contact info, so I asked for her email as well, so I could send a followup – we both said we’d like to keep in good touch. She willingly provided it, but she asked for my Wife's email in return. I am happily married and have zero intention of pursuing my ex after all these years. What does it mean that she wanted my WIFE's email? What could be her motivation?
Treasa Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 Maybe that she wants it to be clear that she only has intentions of being friends with you...AND your wife. Why are you posting this in Second Chances? Why does it bother you that she wants to maintain a friendship with your wife as well, if you only intend to be friends with her? I think her request is fine. If I were your wife, I would appreciate it.
Recommended Posts