irc333 Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 Was talking to this woman, and she said she had like 5 events on one weekend, one of them being 2 beach parties she planned on attending at one time, in one day. Like once, she was a pool party I was at, then left at noon time to attend ANOTHER pool party on the other end of town. I guess she isnt' aware of gas prices these days, but how can anyone keep up with someone like that and how could she have time to date. After doing all this, she's realized she never made any REAL friends, and I'm thiking "Duh....you hardly stick around at one event".
iris219 Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 I have a feeling that if there were any men at the first pool party she was interested in, she would have stuck around.
eleanorhurting Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 (edited) what does that have to do with having ADD? i suppose she could save time to date if you ask her ahead of time. I can relate. When i have time off i like attending every event my friends invite me to! i do feel like i have made good friends though. You would just have to ask her ahead of time but i think that should be the norm anyway. I would not get too excited about last minute invites if i were dating. Edited August 5, 2012 by eleanorhurting
newmoon Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 i am not as busy as this woman sounds but in comparison to my friends, family and people i have spoken with i am extremely busy and do many activities throughout a day/week, almost every day of the week. yes, it is a hindrance to dating and my current bf often complains that i am never around for him. so, what i end up doing is inviting him to my events/activities/parties. it's about 50/50 - sometimes he'll come and sometimes i go solo. for a social woman 'dating' is more like going out and doing activities, which is much more fun (to me, anyway) than staying in, watching movies, etc. but if a woman is serious about a guy (which i am with my bf) i do leave many nights free to be with him and have alone time. so, it's possible to date a very busy/social gal. just join her on events and if she becomes serious about you then the alone time will increase. just my opinion :-)
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