nald1270 Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 So i had met this girl in college in my fourth year, she is also in her fourth year, we already knew each other by then cause we had the same circle of friends and in the previous school term she asked me to be in the same class with her since she didn't knew anyone from that class. And so after three months of being around her, i started to like her a lot, she was kind, humble, down to earth and genuinely thoughtful. And just last two weeks ago I would hang out with her and her friends, little did we know that we had been chatting for almost 2 hours, just the two of us and the others are like, "hey look at you two" teasing us and such. And then the following week i was so eager to tell her that i like her, i also found out from her friends that she has not had a boyfriend ever since, saying that she would rather wait for the right guy. So i told her along with her friends (four of us) that we should watch a movie together, but unfortunately the other two had other plans leaving us two alone, she agreed anyway with just the two us, which was in my favor. So we arrived early in the mall and the movie was gonna start an hour later, so we hanged out in this restaurant and chatted, she would share her interest, hobbies and secrets, secrets that would literally ruin the relationship of the other two, she was that open to me, and i would not break her trust for that, she even told me that she was a lesbian in her highschool days since she studied in an all girl school, but she's had crushes on guys in college so... i dont know, so we chatted for so long that we decided to forget about the movie, it was already night time. So we were gonna get a cab to go back home, so this is where i made my move, i asked her if i could go out with her with just the two of us, she said sure, but i knew in her mind that it was just a hang out "AS FRIENDS", i ask her if she knew what i meant, she said "Yeah, with just the two us, what do you mean??" and then there i said it, I like her.. she went silent, she was looking away, i couldn't tell her reaction, but i could see that she was smiling a little when looking away form me, she mentioned my name a few times and said that she sees me as a friend. So i was a disheartened, so i said I hope this doesn't change anything like our friendship, she replied yes it wont change anything. After a few days, we met up again and things where a little awkward, i tried conversation starters but she would answer with just one liners, i could not keep the ball rolling, afterwards her friend told me that I was acting awkward. HUH?? i mean like Hello!!! she wouldn't even talk to me nor look me in the eye. Later that day her friend also told me that there was another guy,she said they met in a bar, chinese guy who was courting her but through text alone, he was already at it for one week, that might have been the reason, i dont know. So as of now, im trying to finds ways to remove the awkwardness between us, i don't want to lose the trust she had for me nor the friendship, and i still like her, recently i ask her with her friends out for karaoke and she said she would be glad to come along, im really confused as to what i should do, should i still pursue her or just keep being friends with her?? I really like her and i would not judge her for what she did. :(
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