Shepardess Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 So, my ex and I met online. She lives 2 hours away but even though we never hung out, we were still pretty close. Anyway, to make a long story short, she called things off because she lost the spark and because of some other stuff that happened with us in the past. I did all the wrong things and tried to convince her that she was wrong and that we could work, but eventually I just got tired of chasing her so I backed off. She texts me saying that she assures me that I'll never hear from her again, but lo and behold 2 days later I get a text from her saying she wants to have a phone call for closure. We had a pretty bad argument a few days before and pretty much, in my opinion, said everything that needed to be said. When she asked for closure, I said that I decided I wanted space and she got pissed off at me because I wouldn't talk to her on the phone. I wanted to have this same phone conversation weeks ago. She says that I'm immature and childish and can't handle things like an adult because I don't want to have this call for closure. In truth, it hurts me because I don't want to say goodbye to her again. I've been in NC for a few days now trying to heal but I don't understand why she's mad at me. It doesn't matter what I do or say, something always pisses her off.
CaliBabe Posted August 5, 2012 Posted August 5, 2012 Your not immature for not wanting to have the phone call. She left, you owe her nothing. Do your thing, put some space between you both and focus on what makes you happy. At this point she left, if you guys reconcile make sure she comes to you.
Author Shepardess Posted August 5, 2012 Author Posted August 5, 2012 Thanks, I'll do that. Part of me wants to try and fix all this and give our relationship another shot, but another part of me wants to move on. I may just end up getting her number blocked, because the more we talk, the more it just sets me back from trying to get over her.
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