asilisa Posted July 12, 2004 Posted July 12, 2004 [font=times new roman][/font]Hey Everyone, So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months. Then last wednesday he tells me he needs a break to think about a lot of stuff for awhile. So I agree to this thinking it won't be to long. Well Thursday he called me to say hi and Friday he called me to say hi. Then Saturday I couldn't take it anymore so I told him we were breaking up. But he said he would still be thinking about what he wanted to do between the two of us. I said that is good. So last night I was at a family party and he called my phone but I didn't hear it. Then this morning when I woke up I checked my phone and realized he called me. So I called him back to see what was up. He said he just wanted to see how I was doing -- so I said all right and he said he was doing the same. Then he asked what I did all weekend, and I asked him the same thing. And I was like that's all you wanted. So he said he wanted to talk to me last night and I was like well do you wanna talk now and he said no. So I was like cause you're at work and he said yeah he'd call me later. Now I'm so confused, I broke up with him so I wouldn't have to feel this uncertainy anymore. Now he is still calling me about whatever. Driving me crazy. Does anyone have any insight. Because as of Saturday he still didn't know what he wanted so i doubt in one day he changed his mind. I can't stand playing these games -- I don't deserve it. I would be grateful for anyone's advice. Thanks.
HokeyReligions Posted July 13, 2004 Posted July 13, 2004 You can't stand it. You don't deserve it. Tell him it's over and to not contact you anymore. Block his numbers so he can't call you. Same with email. Move on and find someone who won't be so wishy-washy. If you don't want to do this right now, tell him that he has until August 1st to make a decision and a commitment and at that point, if he is still wavering, do what I suggested above. It's your life - don't let someone else control it.
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