jecca1976 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 its just been about 3 months and I catch myself still missing him... dated almost a year and then it was over outta no where... I hvnt called or done anything just kinda going day by day... Id be lying if I sometimes dont hope he'll say something but as the 3 months day gets closer I realize he's never gonna say anything which I guess is the right thing to do... Just this "being in love" with someone you live that dsnt love you back is just exchausting. I know Ill come out on the other side one day I just miss everything about him... sometimes wonder if I ever cross his mind...silly post just needed to say it out loud...
zanzi Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 everybody goes through this, it is normal to wish he would think of you, to feel an attachment to the past and a fear of the future. It took a very nasty shock involving bumping into him to stop me having these "dreams" that he might miss me and come back. I see now that exes will and can hurt you and then ignore you to their hearts desire and at some point, you will be forced to move on because you will realize that this person was willing to lose you, and that they are doing fine without you. You merely haven't had a chance to catch up to the breakup emotionally but somewhere down the line you will wake up one day and not give a flying fart where your ex is. Sometimes it's better not to know which is why NC is good, or you find out he's with someone else, or worse you speak to him and realize he's a giant jerk and the worst decision you ever made. So yeah. One day at a time. Look after yourself well, eat well. Important to socialize and strengthen your friendships with good friends you can trust. and don't contact him. He will say something that will hurt you more and you may think you can handle it now, but you will regret breaking your NC. No doubt you've had over exes who you now feel nothing for. He will just become one of them.
Author jecca1976 Posted August 5, 2012 Author Posted August 5, 2012 Thanks for the words I really needed that today... :-) I keep telling myself if he was willing to lose me tht says it all... So simple but so true!Thanks... Really
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