whathurtsthemost Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Hey all, I'm fcked. I'm in love. And I'm **** scared. Had a relationship with this girl, she started giving me mixed signals, insecurities got the better of me. So I broke up with her. The reasons for the break up were circumstantial, hardly any time for each other, a lot of change in schedules, etc.... so it was getting hard to be with each other at night. Plus she wasn't putting as much effort into it, but now I think of it, she had a lot on her plate and I guess I was slightly inconsiderate. I also realized I need to sort out some issues with intimacy, rejection, abandonment. They influenced my emotions due to my past and childhood. I'm working on that now with a psychologist. I can also tell, that as our love grew, she distanced herself... I think she was scared too, and I pursued her more, got more frustrated, and I broke up with her. So, we broke up on Sunday, 6 days ago. Since then, I sent her a message apologizing for my behaviour - Not begging, taking responsibility for my actions and saying goodbye wish you luck. I've dropped her a couple of messages since then by SMS. I've tried to keep it fun and light, with stuff I know she is interested in and makes her happy with a subtle "its strange without you" in between. No replies. That said, she always ran short on credit which pissed me off! We are still friends on facebook, so today she logged on at the same time I was on, and liked one of my pics. IOI??? I popped on chat and I asked her if she got her work contract for the new place she is working at. She said she was getting it today. She also mentioned "nice pictures". She asked how I was, "I am good"... "lots of changes and exciting things happening now"... she said "I am happy for you"... I wrapped up the convo, "gotta rush, stuff to do" So... I've decided that breaking up with her may have been the wrong decision. Small issues to work out, but now that she settled into a regular routine, we may be able to get things back on track. Do you think she is showing me interest here by liking my photos? Any advice as I really like her, she has a nice heart, is kind to her friends, generous, I haven't caught her in a lie, and I think things just moved too quickly for both of us and it blew up. Thank you!
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