LoverOfDance Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 So I met this guy in dance class. We talked all the way home after class(he leaves close to me apparently). He seemed so interesting the first time we talked. I liked him a lot(not romantically though but was hoping I would get there as time went on). The second time we talked, he was bragging a lot and I mean A LOT. It was getting a little annoying, lol. I think he was just trying to impress me though. He kept complimenting me and telling me how attractive he thought I was. I was like ok, seems like this guy really likes me. I'm interested in seeing where this goes. I go on facebook and find him among one of the ppl invited to an event I was planning to attend. Of course I happily went to his page to check it out. To be honest, I wasn't too surprised at what I saw. His relationship status said "married", lol. I'm really glad I hadn't fall for him when I saw that. God definitely helped me dodge this bullet. The previous time, I wasn't so lucky. This is the 4th time this is happening to me. I don't understand why I keep attracting guys who are already involved. Could it be something I'm doing or is it just coincidental?
ForgetMeNots Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I personally don't believe in coincidences,but it may help that you remain alert and keep an eye out more for the wedding band or the white shadow of one removed.
Shaun-Dro Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 So I met this guy in dance class. We talked all the way home after class(he leaves close to me apparently). He seemed so interesting the first time we talked. I liked him a lot(not romantically though but was hoping I would get there as time went on). The second time we talked, he was bragging a lot and I mean A LOT. It was getting a little annoying, lol. I think he was just trying to impress me though. He kept complimenting me and telling me how attractive he thought I was. I was like ok, seems like this guy really likes me. I'm interested in seeing where this goes. I go on facebook and find him among one of the ppl invited to an event I was planning to attend. Of course I happily went to his page to check it out. To be honest, I wasn't too surprised at what I saw. His relationship status said "married", lol. I'm really glad I hadn't fall for him when I saw that. God definitely helped me dodge this bullet. The previous time, I wasn't so lucky. This is the 4th time this is happening to me. I don't understand why I keep attracting guys who are already involved. Could it be something I'm doing or is it just coincidental? He just wanted to sleep with you. That's why he kept heaving all of those compliments your way like a fastball. It's a good thing you found out soon enough that's he married. I also feel confident something else about him would've turned you off down the line anyway since he's a player!
Author LoverOfDance Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 Smh, it's a pity. I'm gonna avoid him at all cost for the next few weeks just so he can stop coming to class cause I think he only comes because of me. If he doesn't stop coming, I'll just ignore him whenever I see him.
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