Shohane Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 (edited) A friend is evading me because (I think) he thinks I have romantic feelings for him while I'm sure I DON'T. I only see him as a friend. I just complimented him on some things he did. Perhaps because of that, he thought I "liked" him. Before, he replied my messages instantly. For a few months till now, he waited a few days to reply me. He talks to me less and less friendly, too. Now what to do about that? If he keeps evading, we can't develop friendship. Edited August 4, 2012 by Shohane
The Straightener Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 Do you really want to develop and maintain a friendship with this person? If you don't feel you can then just leave him alone. He seems to be already doing that with you. Perhaps just let him be.
Author Shohane Posted August 8, 2012 Author Posted August 8, 2012 Do you really want to develop and maintain a friendship with this person? YESSSS, platonic friendship! Evasion is not unusual, I think, because I know a guy who did just that when he realized that a girl had unrequited feelings for him.
NoMagicBullet Posted August 10, 2012 Posted August 10, 2012 I'm sorry, but I don't think there's much you can do. If one person has made the decision to limit or end contact in any reltionship, platonic or otherwise, it just doesn't work to put more effort into it. Most you can do is ask directly if there is something wrong, but few people will admit it, even if there is.
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