Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Your best post ever. Lol...good one.
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 I'm glad it made you feel better. You'll never stop finding examples of hatred. You need to accept that there will always be a fringe group of loud, screwed up people. You just don't need to BE one of them. But when it feels like the majority of one gender hate you it doesn't exactly inspire positive feelings.That might not be right but it feels that way sometimes.
Anela Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 But when it feels like the majority of one gender hate you it doesn't exactly inspire positive feelings.That might not be right but it feels that way sometimes. Welcome to our world, Woggle. I try to pay attention to the better guys here. 1
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 Welcome to our world, Woggle. I try to pay attention to the better guys here. This is exactly what I am talking about. Instead of showing some empathy you come with welcome to our world comment like it is some sort of just payback for how you feel. Too often this is the response to any issues that men post.
mortensorchid Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Bad comments about either gender ("men are pigs", "women are all sluts", etc.) is based on bad experiences with others. I have had my fair share of men who have treated me badly, but I always remember a few things to be true about that person: 1) They treat EVERYONE like this. The gf before and after me is going to suffer exactly the same things that this idiot will put me through. 2) They do not like themselves much to begin with, and they chip away at the self esteem of those around them because it makes them feel better about themselves. 3) They don't deserve you, they deserve someone who is lesser than they are and they know it.
xxoo Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 This is exactly what I am talking about. Instead of showing some empathy you come with welcome to our world comment like it is some sort of just payback for how you feel. Too often this is the response to any issues that men post. Did you understand "welcome to our world" to be nasty? Usually that phrase is used to say that "yes, I know how you feel (empathy), because I, too, feel that way". 4
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 Did you understand "welcome to our world" to be nasty? Usually that phrase is used to say that "yes, I know how you feel (empathy), because I, too, feel that way". If I misunderstood it I apologize to her.
udolipixie Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 This is exactly what I am talking about. Instead of showing some empathy you come with welcome to our world comment like it is some sort of just payback for how you feel. Too often this is the response to any issues that men post. Seems you're not the one showing empathy and perhaps a victim mindset as rather than take it as a comment of 'this is what women go through as well it's not just men' you take it as a comment of payback. Too often it seems when men post their issues they seem to take the stance that their gender is the only one that deals with such issues or that women have it easy/easier.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 i jus ate my rug Showing a willingness to eat carpet would help you with the ladies.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Showing a willingness to eat carpet would help you with the ladies. Do you dip yours in chocolate Dreaming?
Anela Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 This is exactly what I am talking about. Instead of showing some empathy you come with welcome to our world comment like it is some sort of just payback for how you feel. Too often this is the response to any issues that men post. No, I'm not! This isn't payback. You're feeling the way I've felt when on these boards. I'm worthless now that I'm over 35. It's my fault that I don't have a partner, because I didn't put myself out there and grab someone, when I was at my highest "market value". I'm a liar and don't have any problems at all in the dating world, and if I do, well, they're my fault because I'm a woman. I'm a gold-digging wh0re who expects the richest, most in-demand men to want me, just because I'm me. I've never shown empathy to a man in my life, apparently. I've shown empathy to you, to somedude, to NYC big-kat, to all sorts of others. I don't deserve that sort of response from you. 4
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 No, I'm not! This isn't payback. You're feeling the way I've felt when on these boards. I'm worthless now that I'm over 35. It's my fault that I don't have a partner, because I didn't put myself out there and grab someone, when I was at my highest "market value". I'm a liar and don't have any problems at all in the dating world, and if I do, well, they're my fault because I'm a woman. I'm a gold-digging wh0re who expects the richest, most in-demand men to want me, just because I'm me. I've never shown empathy to a man in my life, apparently. I've shown empathy to you, to somedude, to NYC big-kat, to all sorts of others. I don't deserve that sort of response from you. I apologize. That welcome to my world comment just gets to me sometimes because there is a small group of women who really do justify hurting innocent men as a form of payback. I never insulted women over age.
Anela Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Did you understand "welcome to our world" to be nasty? Usually that phrase is used to say that "yes, I know how you feel (empathy), because I, too, feel that way". Seems you're not the one showing empathy and perhaps a victim mindset as rather than take it as a comment of 'this is what women go through as well it's not just men' you take it as a comment of payback. Too often it seems when men post their issues they seem to take the stance that their gender is the only one that deals with such issues or that women have it easy/easier. Thank you both. That's exactly what I meant. I wasn't being nasty. If I misunderstood it I apologize to her. Apology accepted.
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 I apologize for slipping off the wagon. I just get wound up and it all goes downhill from there. Like I said before I am really sensitive to gender issues since it was the stick I was beaten with for a long period of my life.
xxoo Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I apologize for slipping off the wagon. Just keep hopping back on! It's much nicer up above the fray. I believe you are a good man at heart, Woggle. Keep your chin up!
udolipixie Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I apologize for slipping off the wagon. I just get wound up and it all goes downhill from there. Like I said before I am really sensitive to gender issues since it was the stick I was beaten with for a long period of my life. Seems more like your really sensitive to men's issues and misandry considering the your comments on having your back, fighting fire with fire, and how it's justified/understandable only in the sense of men responding with hate to women hating men. I highly suggest next time you take some women's negative statements and apply it to the majority of women you do the same for some men's negative statements then see if it makes sense.
amaysngrace Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I apologize for slipping off the wagon. I just get wound up and it all goes downhill from there. Like I said before I am really sensitive to gender issues since it was the stick I was beaten with for a long period of my life. Geez Woggle...you seem like a nice guy and all but seriously? This thread? Why? Just last week you were supposedly done with all of this...at least that's what you said but then you do a complete 180 in your thoughts. Obviously being on a public forum isn't helping you any. You had a much better frame of mind when you were gone for a week. I'm just saying.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Do you dip yours in chocolate Dreaming? With my husband, I'd have better luck wearing bacon down there.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 With my husband, I'd have better luck wearing bacon down there. One can never go wrong with bacon. Unless you are an Orthodox Jew. 1
veggirl Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Is there a reason you need to spend time on the internet Woggle? I mean really, if it upsets you so much and triggers you so frequently, just stay off. 2
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I love men. I don't like narrow-minded people though. I also don't like how name calling is thrown out so easily.
Author Woggle Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 Seems more like your really sensitive to men's issues and misandry considering the your comments on having your back, fighting fire with fire, and how it's justified/understandable only in the sense of men responding with hate to women hating men. I highly suggest next time you take some women's negative statements and apply it to the majority of women you do the same for some men's negative statements then see if it makes sense. Of course I am because it affects me just like I am sure for many women misogyny hits them a lot harder than misandry. It sucks being the target of hatred.
bobsmith76 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I think women like men much more than they like other women. I hear women complain about other women backbiting, competing and being mean to them, whereas men jump to help women out. Men open doors for women, get them coffee, pick up things they drop and generally are chivalrous to women. I know I always make an extra effort to help women out whereas with men I do much less.
oaks Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I am just fed up. I really am. Every time I think maybe I was wrong about women and maybe the gender wars were all in my head I just get smacked back to reality. start another one. Fixed that for you. 2
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