Do a lot of women just not like men

[Badsingularity]

The answer to your question is yes, there are some women that just don't like men.

 

Who cares? So what?

 

There are a lot of women that like men.

[Woggle]

Aw, Woggle. Why'd you do it, man? You fell off the wagon, dude.

 

It's unhealthy for you, but further - this is completely dishonest.

 

I tried. I really did try but after reading one misandrist comment after another I just snapped. Is this really the way most women feel? It's like men aren't even human beings to some posters here. I am not talking about you but it is the way some are.

 

That's nice that posters in here wish a divorce on me by the way.

 

I agree there is a lot of hatred against women but there is also a lot of hatred the other way and nobody calls it out. After a while I just feel like saying screw it.

 

Also while I don't agree with all these guys who else here has my back? Who else looks out for guys like me?

[udolipixie]

I tried. I really did try but after reading one misandrist comment after another I just snapped. Is this really the way most women feel? It's like men aren't even human beings to some posters here. I am not talking about you but it is the way some are.

 

That's nice that posters in here wish a divorce on me by the way.

 

I agree there is a lot of hatred against women but there is also a lot of hatred the other way and nobody calls it out. After a while I just feel like saying screw it.

 

Also while I don't agree with all these guys who else here has my back? Who else looks out for guys like me?

You mean guys like you who are in a marriage with a woman you claim to love and who you say treats you well yet have a seemingly biased focus on what some women say and applying it the majority of women?

 

As for if this is really the way most women feel that's a toss up it is the way those women feel. Do you apply the is that the way most think when you see a misogynistic comment?

 

Amusing how to you it's "like men aren't even human beings to some posters here" yet when there are similar posts about women to you it's often just venting or frustration. In my opinion people call out misandry far more often than misogyny which seems to be brushed off as venting, frustration, justified, and a phase.

[Woggle]

By guys like me I mean all guys. Okay these guys might be misogynists which is not right but I gravitate towards people who have my back.

[xxoo]

There are already two proven cases of men doing that for a GF. I just wonder if most women would do that.

 

I would do anything for my H, short of leaving our kids orphaned.

 

But it is unlikely to happen as long as he if fully able-bodied because:

 

1. he is bigger and stronger and would overpower me to save me

2. it would destroy him if he failed to save me

 

A lot of loving men probably feel the same way.

[dreamingoftigers]

This non-sensical drivel is A) NOT having YOUR back; it's about making stabs at women. B) Written by people who routinely don't use capitals at the beginning of sentences. C) Or have accepted apostrophes.

 

When will the madness end?

Where does bigotry end and proper grammar begin?

When can these men be taught that women are humans with feelings and compassion?

When can they be taught the difference between "your" and "you're."

 

So many unanswered questions.

 

It's because women revile weakness, women are unable to respect or empathize with men they perceive to be weak in any way shape or form.

 

females don't have a ***in clue what they want

 

theres few decent females in the world

 

female is a no show on a date because she doesn't know what to wear. it was posted on here, but thats your average female. they arent honest about anything. they expect the man to put in full effort while they put in no effort. females claim to be powerless to leave abusers but females take advantage of nice guys. females claim theres no good men out there but they do such a lousy job choosing men its stupefying. females have the looks but what else.

 

females are entitled little princesses. near every last on of them. your an example. they cheat on men and dump them. they actually have the audacity to call him bitter and blame him. your a typical entitled female.

 

By guys like me I mean all guys. Okay these guys might be misogynists which is not right but I gravitate towards people who have my back.

[Woggle]

I am just fed up. I really am. Every time I think maybe I was wrong about women and maybe the gender wars were all in my head I just get smacked back to reality.

 

Also is not true that some women revile weakness and vulnerability in men? Doesn't the responses on LS to any man who comes here looking for advice show that?

 

I just want to turn to people on here who support me and have my back. If I find that with men who might not be the best examples is that my fault?

 

Also aren't men also humans with feelings and compassion?

[xxoo]

Also while I don't agree with all these guys who else here has my back? Who else looks out for guys like me?

 

They don't have your back any more than a person who provides an alcoholic with money for booze has their back.

 

Sometimes tough love is needed. That's why we challenge you--because we want better for you and your wife!

[udolipixie]

By guys like me I mean all guys. Okay these guys might be misogynists which is not right but I gravitate towards people who have my back.

Telling how guys who are likely misogynists are the ones you gravitate towards and who have your back. Bit curious as to what do you need to be backed up on as it's interesting you often state you feel attacked and that there's some gender war yet you seem to be the one attacking women and starting gender war threads and posts and siding with those who do the same.

[dreamingoftigers]

females claim theres no good men out there but they do such a lousy job choosing men its stupefying. females have the looks but what else.

 

Well, you shouldn't be having any issues then. You clearly aren't one of those "nice guys" that keep getting the shaft.

 

What else do we have?

 

Most of us have the ability to create a readable sentence. There seems to be a strong correlation with men on here that gripe about women and their lack of ability to type something a grade eight student would get a passing mark on!

[Pyro]

I am just fed up. I really am. Every time I think maybe I was wrong about women and maybe the gender wars were all in my head I just get smacked back to reality.

 

Also is not true that some women revile weakness and vulnerability in men? Doesn't the responses on LS to any man who comes here looking for advice show that?

 

I just want to turn to people on here who support me and have my back. If I find that with men who might not be the best examples is that my fault?

 

Also aren't men also humans with feelings and compassion?

 

take a break from the internet. This place is doing more harm than good for you.

 

Go on another 'vacation' (and by vacation I mean far away from a computer)

[dreamingoftigers]

take a break from the internet. This place is doing more harm than good for you.

 

Go on another 'vacation' (and by vacation I mean far away from a computer)

 

When trivial things on the Internet start affecting your mood into the negative on a regular basis, yes it's totally time for a break.

 

(re)gain some balance etc.

[Woggle]

Like I asked before are men also not human beings worthy of compassion? Why does it only have to go one way?

[Pyro]

When trivial things on the Internet start affecting your mood into the negative on a regular basis, yes it's totally time for a break.

 

(re)gain some balance etc.

 

more than a break. He needs to talk to a professional and to take it seriously. He also needs to include his wife in more on his thoughts.

[Pyro]

Like I asked before are men also not human beings worthy of compassion? Why does it only have to go one way?

 

Save the questions for your wife and/or a professional.

 

Go out and enjoy the boardwalk.

[Woggle]

Save the questions for your wife and/or a professional.

 

Go out and enjoy the boardwalk.

 

I just want to know if women think men are worthy of compassion because sometimes I wonder.

[xxoo]

Woggle, would you let your wife cover you with her body in the presence of a gunman?

 

I won't judge you if you would. But I'm guessing most men wouldn't allow that--no way, no how--and have the strength to overpower. So, yeah, stories of wife saving husband are rare. Doesn't mean wives love less, just that their love doesn't manifest as often in protection.

[Pyro]

I just want to know if women think men are worthy of compassion because sometimes I wonder.

 

You really don't because you have started countless threads asking the same question.

 

For your own sanity log off and back away from the internet.

[dreamingoftigers]

more than a break. He needs to talk to a professional and to take it seriously. He also needs to include his wife in more on his thoughts.

 

Totally agreed.

 

As long as he is just myopically seeing this as one-sided and REALLY practically ignoring the OBVIOUS blanket of male bitterness on here there isn't much hope being here and sorting out anything.

 

To be so concerned about what a whole gender of people might be secretly thinking, is pretty obsessive, bordering on ill.

 

I really hope he lets his wife in more. If this is his only major flaw, she's still a lucky woman.

 

Woggle, I don't see anything helping you aside from getting away from this.

It's kindof like talking to an alcoholic when he's drunk about how it "isn't really like that" and "life's not that bad."

[Woggle]

Woggle, would you let your wife cover you with her body in the presence of a gunman?

 

I won't judge you if you would. But I'm guessing most men wouldn't allow that--no way, no how--and have the strength to overpower. So, yeah, stories of wife saving husband are rare. Doesn't mean wives love less, just that their love doesn't manifest as often in protection.

 

I would think we would both be trying to save each other. The way some women talk I wonder if they wouldn't be happy if their husbands died. My mother used to say that 9/11 created a lot of happy widows who were glad to be free. Is this really how most women think of their men?

[xxoo]

I just want to know if women think men are worthy of compassion because sometimes I wonder.

 

Wog, do you know the song "Don't Give Up" by Kate Bush and Peter Gabriel? I cry every time I hear that song, feeling the love and compassion the wife has for the husband. You should look it up

[dreamingoftigers]

I would think we would both be trying to save each other. The way some women talk I wonder if they wouldn't be happy if their husbands died. My mother used to say that 9/11 created a lot of happy widows who were glad to be free. Is this really how most women think of their men?

 

You are asking the same question over and over and over again.

 

You are asking if A woman is capable of loving YOU.

 

Because none of them before your current wife did no matter how hard you tried to please them.

[xxoo]

I would think we would both be trying to save each other. The way some women talk I wonder if they wouldn't be happy if their husbands died. My mother used to say that 9/11 created a lot of happy widows who were glad to be free. Is this really how most women think of their men?

 

Gah! Your mother! Noooooo!

 

You can not cite your mother as a representative of how women feel. Your mother is a sick woman.

[Anela]

I would think we would both be trying to save each other. The way some women talk I wonder if they wouldn't be happy if their husbands died. My mother used to say that 9/11 created a lot of happy widows who were glad to be free. Is this really how most women think of their men?

 

My dad could have died on Sunday, and I was scared of that (it still upsets me). And then I yelled at someone, defending him. Does that sound like I hate men?

[xxoo]

Ok, you are on a binge now. You are indulging in the woman hate to bolster yourself against fear.

 

What would shift you out of this? What would make you feel more centered right now? Because this thread is pulling you away from center----can you feel it?