FireCadets Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 i went out with a guy and we had a long distance relationship, we loved ach other but we never met and it was kind of annoying not being able to meet him so i broke up with him and he hasnt spoken to me for 5 or 6 months the suddenly, a couple of days ago, he asked me out again and i dont know what to do please help i dont know what to do.
justwhoiam Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 i went out with a guy and we had a long distance relationship, we loved ach other but we never met How could you go out with him if you never met him? 2
justwhoiam Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 If you met him online and never met him IRL, you can't say you went out with him It's misleading. What do you mean by he asked you out? Does he really want to go out with you? Or asking you to be his LD gf? What exactly? 1
HeavenOrHell Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 It is bizarre to me how some people 'break up' before they've even met, whenever I've talked about that on this site people jump on my back and say I'm heartless and judgemental, which is far from true, some of the same people even agree with me and have said so in private. I'm never going to understand or agree that you can break up with someone you've never met. Why not take it to the next level and marry someone you've not met, and then divorce them, have kids with them without even meeting. Although, the latter might not work If you met him online and never met him IRL, you can't say you went out with him It's misleading. What do you mean by he asked you out? Does he really want to go out with you? Or asking you to be his LD gf? What exactly? 1
HeavenOrHell Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Why not actually *meet* him, and see if you actually hit it off when you spend time together in the real world. i went out with a guy and we had a long distance relationship, we loved ach other but we never met and it was kind of annoying not being able to meet him so i broke up with him and he hasnt spoken to me for 5 or 6 months the suddenly, a couple of days ago, he asked me out again and i dont know what to do please help i dont know what to do.
justwhoiam Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 he wants to meet and go out Would you like to? If you do, would you soon be back to a LDR? In that case, you already know you don't want it...
ladyabstrused Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 FireCadets, aren't you 13? How long distance is long distance for you? Would you have the means to meet this guy even if you wanted to?
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