goodguy85 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 So after a month of no contact ( 1 1/2 year relationship 2 months since she broke up with me) ex girlfriend( both late 20's) contacts me because she misses me. I invite her out to coffee and we have a great time just talking. Afterwards, I recieve a text 'sorry for texting you. For the same reason you needed to tell me I need to tell you too. I can't stop crying since we last spoke. I do love you very much (still) I can't believe the miscommunication that ruined everything it seems so silly now and I really hope I didn't make a big mistake. I just really need you to know that I do miss you and love you. Ok that's it I won't bother you' Its driving me crazy because for the past 2 weeks, during the week she misses me and thinks the break up was a mistake but then on weekends she's having fun with her friends. She says her feelings are mixed. I have genuinely moved on, but she keeps reopening old wounds. If we would've communicated during the breakup I'm sure we would've worked it out. Why do women torture guys like this with their flip flop emotions and what the hell is going on inside her head?
Ruby65 Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 First of all, it's not a women's issue, it's a HUMAN issue. Secondly..... sorry, but this is why it's so important to stick to NC! Ignore any message you get from an ex other than "I made a huge mistake and want to get back together." It's a good rule to live by..... if you're lucky enough to have already moved on and gotten over this ex, then continue with NC. Don't meet up for coffee or reply to any messages other than pleas for another chance.
weallfalldown Posted August 6, 2012 Posted August 6, 2012 Well you could A. be a spitefull bastard and use her for one thing..providing your over her? B. just ignore her.
g450 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 And WTF do you have against Mitt Romney? Why bring politics in here? Save that crap for the left wing political forums.
Pod81 Posted August 8, 2012 Posted August 8, 2012 She is just as confused as you are. There's no way you can figure her out if she can't even figure herself out! If she wanted you back, she'd make it very clear instead of this wishy-washy crap that she's giving you. Stay NC
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