Vintage79 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 (edited) I went out on a first date with a totally cute girl a few days ago. We seemed to click, and she's followed up with some text messages since. The problem is that I just left the state for about a week. So should I maintain text/e-mail contact (given my schedule, a call may be rough - unless it's short)? Or should I just ask her out on a second date, even though it will be probably over a week until it happens? Basically, I don't want her to get the impression that I'm not interested - because that's far from the truth...more days than usual have already gone by, relative to when I normally ask the girl out again - but there's been some contact, so I'm not wildly concerned...yet (although maybe I should be). Should I ask via text/e-mail, or wait until I have enougj time for at least a 10-15 minute call...I'm not a fan of 2 minutes of chit chat immediately followed by a date invite. Edited August 3, 2012 by Vintage79
maxy1 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Don't over analyse this. If you like her, tell her you wanna hang out again when you get back. Maybe say there is some movie or concert you've been wanting to go see and see if she would join you.
Author Vintage79 Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 Don't over analyse this. If you like her, tell her you wanna hang out again when you get back. Maybe say there is some movie or concert you've been wanting to go see and see if she would join you. Would saying that via text or an e-mail be ok, or should I wait to call? I'm at Lollapalooza, which runs basically from 10 am to midnight - and she goes to sleep pretty early...
maxy1 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Damn I wish I was at Lola right now haha if you guys are talking mainly over texts I am sure it's no big deal at this stage. Maybe mention it through texts right now and then call her when you're back in town to firm up plans.
Author Vintage79 Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 Seems reasonable...I'll probably give it a whirl...worst case scenario - I only went out with her once, so no harm done. Lolla should be a blast...it starts in the morning...I'm totally excited...
maxy1 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Well like I said don't over analyse it. Just keep in contact with her, random texts here and there to show her you haven't forgotten her hah. And have fun a lolla, get wasteyface for me and everyone else who couldn't make it!
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