SteveC80 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 have to like you to want to date you. Attraction is not logical for women, it's all emotional h Its physical also but yes its also highly emotional for women which can get dangerous because theyre connection junkies I dont know how many women ive worked with who were married who thought because we connected had a similliar sense of humor and i kept making them laugh that i was their new soulmate and would have cheated on their husbands with me Once you are married you have to stop thinkign emotionally when you meet other people and start thinking logically but its hard for women to do because their emotions carry them
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Somedude, I have a friend of mine who is 25 and working a job in the mall. Dude is dead broke ALL the time and has never had any money He's been with over a 100 women and all his girlfriends have been attractive. His key is that he's got a very positive and upbeat personality and he treats women with a lot of respect so they're willing to over look his faults and problems (also helps that he goes for 20 year olds who are not as likely to care about his career) I think you would have much better success if you changed your attitude around to be more positive, comfortable and confident and stop trying so hard. Best things in life come when you least expect it It's easy to be positive when you've been with over 100 women. Hell, if I had a GF that loved and respected me, I'd probably smile all day.
brahmabull117 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 It's easy to be positive when you've been with over 100 women. Hell, if I had a GF that loved and respected me, I'd probably smile all day. Well he wasn't born having had sex with a 100 women, we all start somewhere Girls don't make you happy, happy gets you girls. Remember that. You'll never succeed until you change your attitude
xxoo Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Common sense, if you want a great partner, be a great partner. Some people, however, have warped ideas of what makes a "great partner" imo. Rich, tall, thin, and busty don't necessarily make a great partner.
somedude81 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Well he wasn't born having had sex with a 100 women, we all start somewhere Girls don't make you happy, happy gets you girls. Remember that. You'll never succeed until you change your attitude I'm betting your friend got lucky early in life and ever since then he's had few problems with women. All it takes is some success to make one feel better about themselves. Then things get easier from then on. Hey I'd like to talk more about this, but this thread isn't the place and I don't want to get moderated for going off topic. I'd gladly continue in my thread if you make a post there or you can start a new thread about it.
Leopard Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I simply wish it wasn't possible for people to be able to get other people who are above a certain standard they are not. It goes for both men and women. Ugh. YES!!! And for hot people not to be able to get anyone below their standard. !!! I really wish this was true.
Els Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Of course it is. You have a rough idea of how attractive you are compared to other women right? You also know your class and how much money and education you have compared to other people. Therefor, you know have an idea of what league you are in. You can also tell how attractive a man is compared to other men and the same for his education and class, so you can tell what his league is. Then all you have to do is see if your league matches his. You don't really, as different people prioritize different things depending on their upbringing, gender, culture, and individual preferences. To someone, their partner being a non-virgin brings them down to a 0. To someone else, their partner being a virgin brings them down to a 0. A good-looking waitress might consider herself 'on par' with a high-flying but ugly CEO, because she was brought up to believe that status and money matters for men and appearance for women. A petite woman might consider herself 'on par' with a very tall man because she feels that petite women are as desirable and in demand as tall men are. We could go on and on. I do not rank myself based on such arbitrary criteria, because I don't feel I have any less to offer a R with the right man, than a female neurosurgeon or a supermodel does. 'Leagues' don't account for all the important things that actually MATTER in a relationship.
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