SpiderxMan Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Sorry for the bad grammar, okay so me and my ex have been broken up for some years now. We've only dated no more then three-four months. Our relationship ended bad, We had NC a whole week prior to the BU. then out of nowhere I see her at a local spot with her ex. I didn't say nothing, just waited that night to text her and she act like nothing happen, deny that was her ex and everything. Then things turned ugly , (long story short)I ended up buying her a gift, looking crazy and embarrassing myself.Now months goes by I contacted her, she says how much she missed me,how I'm still looking good,and a few jokes.she then winds up sending me flicks and bringing up the BU. I told her I'm over it, and some arrogant **** lol. She still thinks she did nothing wrong, (which infuriates me):-/ and some more b/s. which caused me to ignore the online mail for weeks then I wrote back, she called me crazy and said to communicate only thru her profile :-/* I NEVER WROTE BACK, this happen like last year, do you guys think she'll ever contact me again?
Author SpiderxMan Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 Oh yeah, i haven't physically had contact with her since the BU. Nor vocal conversations since the embarrassment phase.
JesseMartin Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Probably not dude. But who cares? Why are you still thinking about this? What changes in your life have you made since? Where are you taking your life? What are your goals? In other words, it sounds like you're still seeking some sort of validation from her, just by thinking in this way. I suggest you try and obtain validation from yourself, by getting to know yourself and growing as a person.
Author SpiderxMan Posted August 3, 2012 Author Posted August 3, 2012 Since then I've been pretty productive. I finished medical school, which took me almost two years at a trade school. I started exercising and eating healthy. I read books way more often, I feel I'm at the top of Maslow's pyramid, It's just feels like something missing. Thanks for the response, I dont know why I even care.
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