bethj22 Posted July 12, 2004 Posted July 12, 2004 I am at a loss for words. My husband and I just got married about 9 months ago after 9 years of dating off and on. He also purchased a business at the same time and we were continuing to live with our roomates after we were married. 5 days ago, we got into an argument and he has not been home since. He says that he will go to counseling but, does not want to be married anymore. He thinks that the marriage wrecked our relationship. I don't know what to do. We have been fighting pretty much since we got married but, I want to work it out and I just can't see myself without him and I dont want to. If he does not want to be married though, I can't be with him. It would just be too hard. Do you think that we will be able to get through this or do you think I should just give up
TempSain Posted July 12, 2004 Posted July 12, 2004 Too early to say. Maybe the marriage and the ne business is just overwhelming for him. Sounds like alot of pressure to me. You may want to try seperation before you get the divorce but counselling and just talking is best. Good luck.
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