Contrecoeur Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Oh if you only knew... That may be the first time William Hung was called cute. Ever.
RedRobin Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 (edited) Oh if you only knew... ah, well... I won't comment on the mischievous grin... ha ha. I sense a slightly diabolical, yet lovable and kind-hearted spirit in there... ... and after googling William Hung... I still think my assessment is correct. ... and 'Chokie... post some real kid pics of you... if that isn't really you... Edited August 3, 2012 by RedRobin 2
phineas Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 why does this thread & no others give me the 24hr moderator needs to approve message?
Anela Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 why does this thread & no others give me the 24hr moderator needs to approve message? That happens occasionally, if you use a word that kicks off the spam filter. It's also happened a couple of times that I added links.
Leopard Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I don't drool, but I stare It's so uncommon where I live.
brahmabull117 Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Nope, I'm a very visual person so I'm probably the first one to notice a pretty girl. I work out a lot so I'm also hugely turned on by a girl who is very muscular (like gymnast muscular, not steroid muscular) But I love other things about girls like if they have a feminine voice, a cute laugh or if they have a nice warm energy that makes you feel very comfortable. It's about 50-50 I suppose
MaxNoob Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I drool and stare incessantly. Why not? People pay millions for a piece of art so they can stare at it. And often it's not even beautiful art, it's plain ugly because they feel there's no place for beauty in such a cruel world. Well I can have a snobby art connoisseur attitude too. I can look at a really good looking girl and think, that's just inappropriate.
Silly_Girl Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 Same here. I only find a handful of men attractive based on looks alone. I'm rarely ever turned on by someone I don't know personally - it doesn't make sense to be attracted to a package if I don't know what's in it. That's the way I look at it, and my sex drive isn't really strong enough to override that reasoning lol. Exactly this. If I'm not repulsed by someone, there's a chance of it going somewhere. If they're a total dick, however, there's not. My attraction comes from the interaction and chemistry and because I really like them. My ex was so far from my 'norm' physically, but I was super-hot for him because of the whole package (so to speak).
miss_jaclynrae Posted August 3, 2012 Posted August 3, 2012 I can appreciate a good looking man. Drooling is unladylike like though.
Author chelle21689 Posted August 4, 2012 Author Posted August 4, 2012 How would you say your sex drive is? I'd say it's pretty strong. Bf and I do it almost every day lol
iris219 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Men aren’t generally drool worthy. Luckily, most women became attracted to men based on more than just looks. There have been rare times I’ve seen a guy running with no shirt on and I’ve involuntarily muttered “damn” out loud. I see so many guys who could look so much better if they 1. Dressed better/got some style sense 2. Got a decent haircut 3. Worked out. Most guys blend in with crowd. Some are acceptable, but few stand out, and many could improve how they look easily. More women would drool if you gave us something to drool over!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 That may be the first time William Hung was called cute. Ever. He is cute in a way. I like his smile. It's unabashedly sweet. Sometimes you got to just appreciate people for who they are instead of filtering them against a standard that's easy to develop in pop culture. I didn't understand the Magic Mike craze either. While I do think there are plenty of women who are visually stimulated, there is a difference between that and being all crazy and screaming for male strippers. There seems to be a growing popularity for more rauchy female sexuality then before. I don't know if it's because women are being more vocal about what they like or if they are absorbing and eating up pop culture sexuality. My bet is it's a little of both. I'm not a fan of it personally. Most women I know aren't into male strippers. I would take Jon Stewart over Mathew Mconaughey any day. When I was younger I certainly likeded certain actors but it was more because they played roles that showcased unique intelligence. I loved Jeff Goldblum from Jurrassic Park and David Duchveney from X Files. But seeing things they played in after those roles certainly destroyed some of the attraction. So I think I was attracted to the person they played on the mental/emotional side. It comes down to chemistry to me. Chemistry is not predicted on actual physical looks. I suspect some people are tuned into chemistry depites social constructs and some aren't which might make them pass over people that they might have had an amazing relationship with. 2
Bristolius Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 'Attractive' people are just born that way... I'm not impressed by anything someone hasn't had to work for... Don't fail to remember this when thinking about "intelligent" people.
PJKino Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Men aren’t generally drool worthy. Luckily, most women became attracted to men based on more than just looks. There have been rare times I’ve seen a guy running with no shirt on and I’ve involuntarily muttered “damn” out loud. I see so many guys who could look so much better if they 1. Dressed better/got some style sense 2. Got a decent haircut 3. Worked out. Most guys blend in with crowd. Some are acceptable, but few stand out, and many could improve how they look easily. More women would drool if you gave us something to drool over! Maybe women are just overly picky,plus most women dont stand out either most people are average very few men or women walking around are 10's
Necromancer Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Men aren’t generally drool worthy. Luckily, most women became attracted to men based on more than just looks. There have been rare times I’ve seen a guy running with no shirt on and I’ve involuntarily muttered “damn” out loud. I see so many guys who could look so much better if they 1. Dressed better/got some style sense 2. Got a decent haircut 3. Worked out. Most guys blend in with crowd. Some are acceptable, but few stand out, and many could improve how they look easily. More women would drool if you gave us something to drool over! The problem is getting better hair cut,working out will not make you go from 5 to 8 in looks. it´s all about face. But of course everyone should look at their absurdly BEST, but if you don´t have good face you will never stand out in looks.
brahmabull117 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 There seems to be a growing popularity for more rauchy female sexuality then before. I don't know if it's because women are being more vocal about what they like or if they are absorbing and eating up pop culture sexuality. My bet is it's a little of both What's wrong with that? Women are too afraid of being labeled sluts if they display their sexuality. Personally I love seeing that kind of stuff and love hearing it I'll never label them sluts for doing that because I'm extremely sexual myself and I'm not going to be a dumb hypocrite The whole men = pimps for displaying their sexuality and women are whores is retarded. It's the 21st century. We should all be sexually liberated
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Brahmabull117 What's wrong with that? Women are too afraid of being labeled sluts if they display their sexuality. Personally I love seeing that kind of stuff and love hearing it It comes down to how you define a positive way to display your sexuality. I don't think women screaming and acting crazy toward a bunch of male strippers is positive. That's just me. I don't like the level of raunch that is popular. Again, that's just me. I don't think extreme sexuality combats "slut" stereotypes. I'll never label them sluts for doing that because I'm extremely sexual myself and I'm not going to be a dumb hypocrite Nice to hear! The whole men = pimps for displaying their sexuality and women are whores is retarded. It's the 21st century. We should all be sexually liberated I agree! I just think we got a very long ways to go and it's not just restricted to the idea as men as pimps and women as whores. There is a lot of open discussion about sexuality in our culture but they seem to be around teh wrong things. They seem to be about that stupid book 50 Shades of Grey and stupid movies like Magic Mike but there seems to be very little discussion about actual connection, respecting your body (whatever that means to you) and a host of other elements that are really very important to talk to. It doesn't seem like we socially talk about those things so much as we enjoy talking about the sensationlism. I am even guilty of it at times. I certainly get wrapped up in it. I just see it though in society and even in me as an issue. 1
brahmabull117 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 It comes down to how you define a positive way to display your sexuality. I don't think women screaming and acting crazy toward a bunch of male strippers is positive. That's just me. I don't like the level of raunch that is popular. Again, that's just me. I don't think extreme sexuality combats "slut" stereotypes. To each their own. If those girls are having fun at strip clubs, who are we to say that's positive or negative? I know a guy on bb.com who is a male stripper who is extremely successful with women and he has a great time when he dances and so do all the girls there
Radu Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 The only beautifull person i ever looked at and couldn't take my eyes off was a guy. Which shocks me because i felt attraction for girls all my life, i love femininity, and i have managed to stop myself from staring/drooling [was hard too] over models/supermodels when i saw them ... hell, i even talked with a famous porn actress once who looked awesome and did not drool, though i had a hard time not looking at her cleavage. I think the guy i mentioned above was just too surreal for the surroundings. Imagine a street with damage, potholes, sidewalk made of rotten concrete. A grey sky, a grey city and worn colors on men and women. And this guy with long flowing pure dark hair comes walking down. He has pure black clothes, all of them big names, black leather shoes, listens to an iphone, and the face had a constant color, i think he had foundation on. No lipstick on or anything, but well defined eyebrows. I just looked away, and kept looking back ... it was so freaky, yet still beautifull.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 To each their own. If those girls are having fun at strip clubs, who are we to say that's positive or negative? I know a guy on bb.com who is a male stripper who is extremely successful with women and he has a great time when he dances and so do all the girls there I said it was just my opinon Braham. I'm allowed to think that it's negative and you are allowed to think it's positive. I am sure lots of people have lots of fun at strip clubs. Doesn't mean I think it's cool.
brahmabull117 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I said it was just my opinon Braham. I'm allowed to think that it's negative and you are allowed to think it's positive. I am sure lots of people have lots of fun at strip clubs. Doesn't mean I think it's cool. I didn't say it was positive or negative. I said it's up to the individual person to decide I just don't like judgmental opinions or judgmental people in general and you have to admit you're very judgmental. You can tell that very easily with your views of porn in the porn thread
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 I didn't say it was positive or negative. I said it's up to the individual person to decide I just don't like judgmental opinions or judgmental people in general and you have to admit you're very judgmental. You can tell that very easily with your views of porn in the porn thread I think comments on porn should stay in the porn thread. I agree, it's up to the indivudal person to decide. What have I been judgemental about? That I consider the entire environment of male strippers and screaming women raunchy? It doesn't appeal to me. I don't think it's a positive environment. Why is it judgemental for me to believe that? Do I have to agree with everyone's choices? Would you consider a man judgemental if he didn't like the entire environment of strippers just looking for his money and guys hanging around oggling said women? Isn't it kind of judgemental to judge me the way you have in this thread and the other thread? I didn't say that people that liked strippers, male or female, are bad people. It doesn't appeal to me and I find a level of "raunch" in it that I don't think is a positive. We all make judgements Brah. You've apparently made some about me.
SteveC80 Posted August 4, 2012 Posted August 4, 2012 Women today are downright creepy with the way they act around Men they are physically attracted to,its almost embarassing Women just dont get called out on it because there pereceived as the weaker sex and not threatening when they do it
Almond_Joy Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 (edited) 'Attractive' people are just born that way... I'm not impressed by anything someone hasn't had to work for... Excellent perspective - definitely agree. Though some people are just gifted and I do give props for that. I have found myself staring at a person - men and women - from time to time, if they have really distinct features or a dazzling smile or great skin - something that anyone can admire. Doesn't equate to attraction, but certainly catches the eye. Edited August 7, 2012 by Almond_Joy
pteromom Posted August 7, 2012 Posted August 7, 2012 I don't walk around drooling, but I certainly notice good looking people, and I will look at a guy who is smiling at me, and think about how nice it would be to just grab his face and kiss him, or to walk up and lick his neck. Doesn't everyone? No? Anyway, nobody would ever know that this slightly quirky, 40-something mom is secretly a dirty old lady who is getting turned on behind a cute guy in line at the grocery store.
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